35F Where do people meet these days? Tired dating apps but they did not work for me. Hard to grasp chemistry

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Have you thought about signing up for a match making service? Like tawkify? You don’t have to be a paid member, they will screen you for paying members. It’s a little weird going on a blind date. I have done it a bunch and it’s not as bad as you would think. Worst case you just have a drink and a conversation

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I have gone on some good dates. Others just like having a drink with a coworker lol. But you don’t have to sign up for a match maker. You can just register in their db for potential matches. Happy to tell you more if interested

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I think dating apps start falling flat in the mid-20s…maybe just me. Matchmaking services, singles events, hotel bars, cafes seem like the move these days

(Or DMing strangers on Fishbowl lol)

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@VP1 - have you been on any dates from fishbowl?

I’m wondering the same thing. My matches hardly ever respond to messages and when they do it seems impossible to get a conversation going beyond small talk

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Or they just offer a hookup

Yep is hard to date in nyc

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Definitely hard. Still trying here 41m

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Just by trust I suppose

Same..

Only apps

Bars and hating it.

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