What do we want in love and life? Forget what society wants, what do you want?

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Someone to sit in the same room and do nothing with.

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I want the "Notebook" Love and Life 🤣😂 in my damn dreams... I shall continue on dreaming and just suck this ish up

$$$

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Companionship but no kids.

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+1 to that

I just want someone to talk to and mutually hold. Confide in. Life takes too much energy. I need someone who can give me energy and/or relax with me

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Another person may not be able to give you energy but what qualities does he/she brings out in you? I believe that is what you are referring to.

Peace! For both love and life. Want a partner with whom even the most difficult conversations seem easy..

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In love- Someone who can make me feel comfortable enough to completely be myself without hesitation.

In life- FU $$$.

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I’d love to have someone who doesn’t compare themselves to me; who will not look at me as their competition but as their friend and teammate; someone who shows more compassion for others and less concern over their financial portfolio. Some people have told me that I’m old fashion and being unrealistic as a female; however, I sincerely believe that there are men out there that fit quite well in this description

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More free time to develop hobbies

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What do you want op?

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There are no rules in love, only compromise, as that is what love does best: cares for one another’s needs, and no one is above other. Communication must be honest and open for love to choose the best path. True in all human relationships

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