my sister died this morning. I posted about her in a past post. Alcohol addiction, liver failure and then it taxed the kidneys too much, she went into cardiac arrest at 9 am and they could not save her. She was 51. Sad day for sure. Feels odd that she is no longer here. I just wish she could have had a better future.

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I’m so sorry to hear it. I lost my brother way too soon from this as well. After some time it ended up helping me find my way to recovery. I hope you can find peace with it when you’re able.

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I’m very sorry for your loss.

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Sorry to hear this.

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I would only say that you may think it is “lonely” to have posted here, I am grateful you took the time to share this loss. I’m an alcoholic and appreciate the reminder of what happens if I pick up again. I think we all do. We all know that we have a disease that cannot be cured and we don’t want our family to be writing these obits about us. I am sorry for your loss. It is heartbreaking but thank you for sharing and I appreciate the reminder of what faces me.

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I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️‍🩹

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I’m so sorry for your loss OP ❤️❤️

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I’m so sorry. 😢

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I’m so sorry

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Thank you for sharing. I need to be reminded of how drinking will define my future if I don’t make a change today. The addiction in the brain tells me my body can handle heavy drinking like in my 20s.

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Not sure if you are an alcoholic or not. If you are an alcoholic and are tempted to drink to escape, it won’t make anything better.

Oh I am not. Just a sad sibling

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