where did you meet your spouse/significant other? please dont say bar review, dating app or firm event, thnx

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Visiting a friend at his parents’ house in his home country. I knew he had a sister but wow. We dated cross-border and until we got married (35 years ago). She’s still amazing!

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Instagram… i started following him because he’s hot and he dm’d me because I’m hot.
Turns out he’s supportive, sweet, stable, and our values align. We’ve been together 7 months and expect to stay strong.

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I AM SO EXCITED FOR YOU! I’m suuuuper glad you both found happiness..❤️‍🔥

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I know you said no dating apps, but I feel left out with everyone’s awesome stories on here… bumble 8 years ago, married for 5, one kid (so far).

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Same - met on bumble 7 years ago, married for 4, 2 kids and a law degree later, and somehow he hasn't ran off crying, yet..

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Back in the prehistorical days, before Facebook, Instagram and TikTok, we had a little social media site called Friendster. As I recall, you could only see your friends and your friends' friends. She had been college friends with one of my best high school friends. So I sent a message that today would be considered creepy or bot-like, but was perfectly acceptable in the naive early '00s. We've been together 21 years.

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lol was this the xanga days? i vaguely recall friendster but appreciate your lovely story

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College. Both ended up going to different law schools.

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Informally setup by friends.

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At a family party.

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Law library. She was sitting at a table with a study group.

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She worked with a friend's sister in law. They arranged for us to "coincidentally" meet. Some months later, my friend said, "remember that woman who is Judy's friend? She asked about you."

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International Flight

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Kickball, like many mid-20s young professionals with drinking problems.

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Online, I think Facebook! We both grew up in the same town, had some of the same friends and became friends on FB. We talked for several months, my husband had died a couple years before and I lost both of my brothers within 2 months of each other. We met a few months into meeting for lunch, in August and we moved in together Dec. of 2019, we are still going strong.

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At a mutual friend's house, playing spades.

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I like Spades. My son says it’s a game from jail.

Bar. Dollar wells night. Undergrad.

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Bumble

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Junior year of college

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Hinge in my fourth year as an attorney.

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Post undergrad through mutual college friends

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At a mutual friend’s birthday party

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During the first day of class my senior year in college. I was running late and the only open seat was next to her.

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Hinge, met 5 years ago married a year 🥰

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I haven't ever had a spouse or significant other. I have only been abused or abandoned.

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I’m sorry you’ve had to endure both abuse and abandonment. 😔 I pray that you’ll find hope and joy again in relationships despite what you’ve suffered. I know what it’s like to feel abandoned and wouldn’t wish it on anyone but I also know it drew me closer to Jesus and, for that reason, I wouldn’t trade it for anything. Simone Weil was absolutely right when he said - beauty and affliction are the only two things that can pierce the human heart. Sometimes God calls to us from His beauty and other times through our pain.

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