Why is alcohol still such a big part of law firm culture? Every networking event, client dinner, and team celebration seems to revolve around a bar tab. I don’t mind a glass of wine, but it feels like the default bonding ritual is drinking—sometimes to excess. It’s awkward for people who don’t drink, and honestly, it blurs the line between professional and personal in ways that don’t always feel healthy.

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Be the change you wish to see. At the next event, whip out a joint and pass it around

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Which is nearly always substandard swill you can barely choke down, at least on the wine side (unless you have a wine pairing event with knowledgeable distributors).

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I am almost two years sober but my descent into alcoholism was pretty easy given the abundance of alcohol at events and the social norms around enjoying nice wine and whiskey recreationally and as a way to destress from work. I went from experimenting with nice whiskeys to finishing a half bottle of bourbon a night over the course of 5 years. COVID really escalated it too. I tend to use my young kids as my public reasoning for why I don’t drink anymore, but the truth is that I’ve been in AA and just got to a point where I couldn’t stop drinking every day without intervention.

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Happy for everyone here

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