Relationships

What's up with guys (both young & older) DMing me on apps like Threads, this app, and EVEN LINKEDIN??? Like im 34--yes--but do I scream desperate & looking to get married to them or someth… more

My expartner of almost 4 years wants to revisit the relationship again. It’s been 4 + years since we broke up. I have been seeing someone for almost 3 months but I just don’t know if it’s going to dev… more

This man has proved to me that time and time again his words mean nothing. Things like he’d say he’d call but never follows through. Am I making a big deal out it?

Hey everyone. So I have a genuine question. I just turned 30 year old guy and tbh I’m a virgin. Growing up I had a learning disability, autism and struggled with depression and it took a lot of time … more

I started talking to this girl (28), we have gone on a date, hung out with her friends and she is also interested in hanging out more. On our date, she explained that she doesn’t own a car which I did… more

Unpopular opinion
I love the anonymity on this app ❤️

In a relationship for a 1.5 and my bf and i are from different countries, having the same ethnicity but different cultural background as he is born and brought up here. I have a close friend who is bo… more

Spouse and I have a combined income of 350k (pretty evenly split) with 2 kids in daycare (around 4800 a month, which we are trying to do find cheaper options). I come from a low income household (sub … more

Im in Rome Italy for the week and kinda want to connect with people for dates (I am a black gay man, that does need to be said 😂). Where are some locations to try?

As a 40+ man, who pays for the trip if both the man and the lady in the relationship (not married, dating exclusively) are in similar (well-to-do) financial situations? Flights primarily. Trip was des… more

What does it mean when a guy calls you “My Guy” — could that term ever be used romantically or am I in the friend zone? I’m a woman btw

Its truly amazing to me how people treat you when you are really going thru tough times. I was laid off of my toxic job last month & have been searching for a job EVERYDAY & still have yet to … more

I have been with this person for 1.5 years and we are pretty serious. He is a kind, respectful man with a great sense of humor. I enjoy his company and the love he has for me. im super ambitious and … more

Tips for a woman who is opposed to dating apps? Where should they go/ What should they do to increase their chances of being approached 👀

I'm someone who values my own company, but I’ve learned that a quiet life doesn't have to mean a lonely one. I'm not looking for someone to complete me, but for an exceptional person to sh… more

Do people believe in a soulmate / forever partner, or is that just a romantic myth?

Been single for about 3 years now, had only a brief fling since. Feel like my confidence is weakening because I feel that no one finds me attractive or has wholehearted interest in me.

How have people been able to… more

Is anyone on the tea app? If so, what has been your experience?

Women, I’ve heard the saying that money makes a man attractive a million times, but I just don’t get it. For me, it makes zero difference how much money a girl makes for me to be attracted to her. Can… more

This is a bit silly, but how do you make those "show-up" friends? Like energy-aligned friends.

I have a couple of friends from middle school/high school that are my life long friends, basically sisters. … more

What body shapes do people like? Boys - do you like lean or curvy or what? Ladies - do you like jacked or soft or tall or short or what? People want to know!!

I am a loner privately and sociable publicly. It’s always worked for me. I get energy solo. Now that I’m in a very serious relationship where my partner is social privately and publicly I’m having a h… more

AITAH type of post. I want to get perspective before I make a rash decision.
My mom is visiting from abroad for a few weeks and staying with my sister who also lives in the same city. I live with my gf… more

I asked a guy on an app what he thought about the red flags I pointed out on my profile and he said he feels confident about them. I then asked him to tell me more because I’m interested, and then he … more

Do you think it’s possible to be with someone who’s completely healed?

Thoughts on workplace romance? I have colleagues who are also secretly (and not so secretly but secretly) dating, some dating someone with seniority, etc

Not asking as a “pick me” but genuinely curious. What turns guys off when you’re in a relationship with them?

Its seriously disturbing to me how ppl blowup at you during the day & then act like nothing even happened later on. I told my boyfriend I needed to go to the bathroom at the same time he did. As h… more

Maybe I’m jealous… But every day my friend has lunch with her husband… She’s not working and he works at home… And then we can’t talk during the time she’s preparing to cook and eating with him. Thoug… more

Just unmatched with someone after a solid 3-day chat because they 'got busy' —anyone else dealing with this in [New York ]? What's your go-to recovery strategy

Based on summary from my therapist I have the following issues:
Chronic feelings of loneliness and rejection, interpersonal conflict, low self-esteem, repeated experiences of being “ghosted” or dismissed by others… more

Been spending a lot of time with this guy for over a month even though we want different things in our futures. I find myself constantly wanting to talk to him or be around him. When we are together, … more

45yr female, divorced after a 12 yr marriage. Been in the dating pool. It has been more than horrible.
I connected with someone from my past, were together for a mear 4 months. I thought he was everything I was longing… more

Why Is it sooo hard to find a committed girlfriend nowadays. I just started my top tier MBA probably earning 250k in consulting afterwards. I wanna buy a nice house in Dallas and honestly just a girlf… more

I wish my gf would dress better and have better style. I go outside, go to the office and see women dressing well, putting some effort into looking stylish even when going to work on a random Tuesday.… more

How do you give feedback and criticism to your spouse?
They are the type who use the words during criticism as a weapon against you.

Somehow, the men I meet seem to always disappear on me. Don’t men communicate anymore? Is ghosting the best way to break up?