Somehow, the men I meet seem to always disappear on me. Don’t men communicate anymore? Is ghosting the best way to break up?

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Unfortunately ghosting seems to be the way nowadays. Easier to disappear than to be a mature adult and have a slightly uncomfortable conversation.

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Sad... ain't it!?....

It’s because they got what they wanted and then they bounced. You might be giving off “just a one night stand or casual hookup“ vibes…Just saying.

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@JPM1 I’m sorry!!

Ghosting is cowardly, but I think I'd prefer being ghosted than being led on. It could always be worse lol🥲

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I’m really sorry you’ve been ghosted that can be painful and confusing. Sometimes, when this happens repeatedly, it might be worth taking a moment to reflect on the patterns in your expectations, communication, or even the kind of people you’re attracting. This isn’t about blaming yourself, but about understanding what you can control and grow from.

I don’t think so 😅

Not nice to ghost. But not only men fo this - as a guy I feel same way.

Ok so are you one of those tight chicks? Because that’s a big turn off. Or are you crazy loco? Another turnoff or are you the angry snappy type? Again another turnoff for men.

Nope not a ghoster. Instead I’m every woman’s worst nightmare (big evil laugh mwahahahaha). No woman on this planet can handle me. I’m too intense and I’m content with being single forever because I like my peace and my own company. Human beings annoy me.

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