Relationships

Honestly getting tired of doing life alone and makes me want to settle. I’ve been through a lot in my life and I’m tired of going through it alone. My therapy sessions are only once a week and apparen… more

Lol, watchingOprahs talk on family estrangement and realizing I was a trend setter. I did so some 20 years ago , went through so so so much pain. Wish I had done this sooner.

I want a winter relationship that last a lifetime ❤️

My girlfriend does these small “sacrifices”, such as waiting for me to have lunch, doesn’t matter how long it takes. Or not sleeping next to me on a three hour drive when I am driving, despite being s… more

Is it just me, or is modern dating starting to feel like an endless cycle of almost-relationships?
People want intimacy but fear commitment… want loyalty but entertain options… want love but avoid vuln… more

Hey everyone - last night I went to a Christmas party with my gf and her friend. Her friend kept on bad mouthing one of my friends and saying how his gf is out of his league and that he should be luck… more

What gifts are you getting your S/O for the holidays?

I’m introverted but my girlfriend always insists that I meet her friends. Last night we met up and I didn’t speak much. Now she’s upset with me because her friends claim I don’t like them. Really anno… more

Now that dating apps have kind of run their course given the new algorithms make them unusable, how are you meeting your person out there? Are there any IRL events that would be good to engage in?

looking for something to do on new years anyone got any ideas?

Question for couples who aren’t yet married but live together, how would you handle finances when one partner owns their place and the other moves in?

Assuming you have similar incomes and a mostly equ… more

What makes people happy? What are we really looking for?

And what do you offer and bring? Maybe we can make some matches here.

Is anyone tracking the Akash Singh-Jasleen Singh situation? It’s bizarre. I actually know several Indian women who do this.

Telltale signs of women with emotional problems to be on the look out for while dating?

Hi all, like many others I’m pretty drained from the dating app scene. Any recommendations of where to to meet other single professionals? Ages 30+ through 40ish?

Or even best bars in Manhattan to chec… more

Late 20s M living in a big city: Recently came back from a date that has left me confused. My date casually mentioned that all her exes were white men and she “lowkey” had a type. This made me quite u… more

Hello everyone, I'm 25 years old, still single and searching but first want to build my life, is there any single lady like me here 😂😂I don't know just asking ?

I'm dating a girl whose family is generationally wealthy, and realized I may not be the right type to date her. For those who married into wealthy families, how have you managed that change?

I had a close friend that I met at 17. He was very flamboyant but also liked to push ppls buttons. He said mean and hurtful things but would say it as a “joke”. I was not immune. I had trouble making … more

How long after a big breakup of a long term relationship did you feel comfortable trying to date again? When did you know you were ready to do so?

What’s a reasonable birthday gift price range for a 30 y.o. woman that I have been dating for 7 months?

I was laid off 2 &a half months ago from my toxic job & have been super unsuccessful in finding a job, no matter what i do. To top it all off, my boyfriend just told me he won't be renewin… more

Any early 50s women here? I’m a little older but as a guy I wonder who is around here these days. Dating is hard but really shouldn’t it be fun and natural?

In today’s dating times, is it easier for men or women to date? Who has it harder? Why?

I have a quick question; I’m stuck between making a birthday purchase for a guy I’m talking to. Should I do an Hermes Bracelet or a cologne from Byredo or Louis Vuitton?

I figured I'd have a better shot dating off the apps. While I've gotten numbers and set up dates, the flakiness from the other parties continues. I'm really at my boiling point. I don'… more

How do you know if you really want children? Spouse (Partner in Biglaw) and I (Surgeon) are in our mid 30s and the biological clock is ticking. They are confident that they do not want kids. I’ve alwa… more

I recently started dating my bf and I really care about him. We have a great time together, he’s a good person, and I think we are very compatible. Hes the first man I’ve dated where I think, wow if I had a son like you I’d … more

I've never felt so alienated, ignored, ghosted, yet so confused by people. I don't know, I guess I'm not as self-aware as I thought I was, but a lot of times just the experience of job hun… more

I’m 28m. My parents are introducing me to girls to get married; however, I feel no physical or emotional attraction to them. I spoke to my parents, and they said that it doesn’t matter: “chemistry wil… more

Who is willing to travel to their loved one if you met online and how soon?

People want love like in the movies — but forget that even movie love takes a script, retakes, and effort.

You can’t demand loyalty, communication, and consistency if you only offer vibes.

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Thoughts on keeping your ex on social media while starting a new relationship?

The guy I’m seeing still has his ex of 3 years that ended in April this year. They follow each other still.

Thoughts on introducing your soon to be spouse to your kids before getting married? Is it necessary?

I feel like I keep running into walls with the people I start talking to. It always ends up feeling one-sided like I’m the one putting in all the effort. The guys usually respond positively and seem i… more

What's up with guys (both young & older) DMing me on apps like Threads, this app, and EVEN LINKEDIN??? Like im 34--yes--but do I scream desperate & looking to get married to them or someth… more

My expartner of almost 4 years wants to revisit the relationship again. It’s been 4 + years since we broke up. I have been seeing someone for almost 3 months but I just don’t know if it’s going to dev… more

This man has proved to me that time and time again his words mean nothing. Things like he’d say he’d call but never follows through. Am I making a big deal out it?

Hey everyone. So I have a genuine question. I just turned 30 year old guy and tbh I’m a virgin. Growing up I had a learning disability, autism and struggled with depression and it took a lot of time … more