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Makes no difference to me how much a man makes as long as they are able to support themselves. If they are wealthy, I guess that's a bonus but other things are more important.
Egotistically speaking men seek beauty from a woman. We want a woman with a high sex appeal, women embody beauty, a trait that men do not possess. Beauty has value which is why men seek out the most attractive women. For women, it’s security. If a woman is not sexually attracted to a man, she will only mate with him if he can provide. A man who offers stability, facilities, amenities, hospitality, resources, benefits etc. It’s not necessarily about money but resources or security. For instance a single woman who is in her twenties to thirties is approached by two men. First man is unemployed but very handsome and athletic. The second man is fat but owns his own home and has a car and a stable job. She can mate with the first man all she wants but in the long term she’s more likely to settle for the second man because he is financially and economically stable. I’m not talking about love or soulmates or marriages built on friendship or other emotional foundations, I’m just generalising the science behind lust and pair bonding.
This! Women biologically are predisposed to look for stability, security and superior genes to procreate more resilient offsprings. A man who offers instability (makes less money, isn’t good with managing money, has no growth mindset, has no ambition) biologically turns us off. This is true for basically all female animals including homo sapiens. 😀
Ties into outdated social norms around a man being able to be a good provider. The more money he makes the more comfortable a life he can give to you and the more you will be “taken care of.” It’s also a symbol of status, success and sometimes intelligence. Those things can be attractive qualities if they are meaningful to you.
I have a small pp so all I can do is offer money
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As a man, I believe in love at first sight. A women who chars money will leave me for a richer guy. But we all know real love at first sight and know nothing else beats it. It’s so hot.
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From a woman’s perspective, I don’t care how much money a guy makes. It’s about his attitude towards money