Been spending a lot of time with this guy for over a month even though we want different things in our futures. I find myself constantly wanting to talk to him or be around him. When we are together, it feels like we’re going on (cute) dates. We both are also recently out of relationships and I was really just looking for casual when I met him. We talked about this in the beginning but we haven’t brought it back up again. Am I setting myself up to get hurt and/or hurt him?

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What should be my salary according to market ? 🤔

Techstack: Golang, Postgres, gRPC, GraphQL, ElasticSearch
YOE: 4.8+
Current CTC: 16.5 LPA

And should I make a jump rightnow?

TIA🙏

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Hi all,

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