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How soon does the pregnancy symptoms show? Except for mild cramps and clear blue test confirmation, I feel pretty normal. First timer so it’s actually nervous and joyful at the same time 🫠

Advice for finding an OB/GYN. I haven’t been to a doctor in the US in a long time as I don’t completely understand how insurance works here but it seems like it can land you in serious debt with any w… more

Hello! I just had a baby a few days ago, and swelling and water retention are out of control, way beyond i experienced during pregnancy. Are there any tips and tricks anyone could share?

I had a repeat c-section and was really dreading it because the recovery of the first one was awful even though everything went smoothly. I could barely get myself up the first week, my body was so weak my arms w… more

Anyone have a velamentous cord insertion? Found out I have one at my 20 week ultrasound, and MFM dr said it means the umbilical cord is attached at the side of the placenta, but didn’t mention exposed… more

Anyone here have experience with WA state paid medical/bonding leave?

I am changing jobs and going from an hourly position to a salaried position. I have the equivalent of 6.6 weeks of leave left that I can use until June. more

15weeks pregnant and already gained 10lbs…. Is this normal 😭

My 3 month old baby has been sleeping 7-8 hours overnight. Should I wake him for feedings or let him sleep? He’s been gaining weight and has enough wet diapers but it feels weird to let him go so long… more

Anyone here experienced female hair loss? Any preference between seeing a dermatologist vs trichologist or someone else? Would prefer to avoid meds

Dealing with minor foot swelling at 19 weeks with my second. I don’t think this started until 20-something weeks with my first. I feel a little silly wearing compression socks every day this early but… more

Going in for c- section tomorrow and nervous about my 2yo toddler. Any tips/ hacks on how to handle toddler in the coming days/weeks? Did you let toddler visit you in the hospital? How did it go? I… more

All the mamas who are exclusively bottle feeding - how can you tell you’re not over feeding your baby ? Each time I pour a bottle it’s like I’m guessing the ounces. I try and add less milk and let her… more

My baby is 6 months old and I’m finishing up my leave to head back to work. My team *just* sent me a gift basket for my daughter. Initially I was upset that none of them thought enough to send me anyt… more

Finally pregnant after 3 miscarriages.. have anxiety issues.. does anyone know if I can opt for an elective C section in Texas?

I signed up to attend a conference in October that I'm really excited about. However, I'm currently 10 weeks pregnant and will be 17 weeks at the conference. This may sound silly but should I … more

When did you transition your baby from drinking breastmilk or formula from a bottle to a sippy cup/ cup with straw?

How to get baby comfortable in the car seat? Mine hates it which means we can’t go anywhere lol

What things did you actually use from your hospital bag when you were at the hospital?

My work offers 2 weeks off before your due date. This can’t be used after you deliver and must be used before. I have high blood pressure during this pregnancy and had to go on BP meds. Because of thi… more

TW: Mention of loss
I’ve had two 1st trimester losses last year. Currently pregnant first time into 2nd trimester.
All scans including NIPT & NT scan were good, no risk. I am still anxious as hell & … more

My 2 month old has started putting his fingers in his mouth. He does if non stop all day. I read this is normal and a way to self soothe but I don’t want it to become a habit where he starts sucking h… more

Do any of you ladies enjoy being pregnant? In my 2nd trimester now and this one is better than the first but i just feel like being pregnant really sucks vs not being pregnant. Am i supposed to at lea… more

Not sure where to ask this question but are there any SAHMs that like it with 2 kids at home? I love my children but 24/7 childcare is beyond 😵‍💫. What resources do you have to make it work? Or are … more

I plan on trying for VBAC, and my doctor said we can attempt this, but because I didn't dilate enough for birth #1, I may need another c-section.

My first c-section was traumatic. My blood pressure went throug… more

Thoughts on your kids having (unintentional) rhyming names? We're considering Rowan, when we already have an Owen. We loved the name until we realized it rhymes 🥲

Curious, anyone have 4+ kids? How do you deliver the news that you are expecting again? Very grateful to be welcoming baby 4 soon but nervous as to the judgement when I share the news. Or am I too muc… more

Does anyone use the Kirkland fragrance free diaper wipes? My partner uses multiple wipes every diaper change and we run through a pack in a couple of days. Thinking of switching over.

Is anyone else totally lax about having a baby? I'm in my first trimester and I don't think it's worth the effort of researching and planning, etc., until we get through the second trimest… more

I have a scheduled C-section at 39 weeks as baby is breech, with pre-op appointment the day before. Nothing quite like your manager guilting you for trying to take ONE extra day prior to pre-op 🫠😑

Is it just me or does anyone feel their interests changing in a positive way during pregnancy? I’ve grown a dislike for the shows I used to enjoy (I.e., housewives), I’m all of sudden an avid reader a… more

Hi ladies, I need your advice. Planning to stop bc at the end of September. I was told to wait 30 days after that before trying to conceive. I was also told to start on a prenatal in advance. Any reco… more

Newborn got around 10k cash as gift…whats smartest way to do with them, ie what would you do?

When did you get your period back after baby arrived? I’m 5 months pp now and pumping and I feel like I’m getting it. Not looking forward to that. Also did you see a dip in your supply because of this… more

At what age did you stop swaddling your baby? And how did you transition out of it?

Hi (to be) parents! I am confused with vaccine schedule. Our 15mth old should receive his 15mth vaccination which should be 4th dose dtap and hib based on cdc. However, as he received pentacel (combin… more

Had anyone gotten postpartum massages? I went to a therapist who specializes in prenatal/ postpartum massages for a prenatal one, honestly best massages I've ever had.

She said her postpartum ones … more

I expected pregnancy hormones to make me more emotional, what I didn’t expect is to always be on the cusp of pure rage. If I get feedback from the client during a meeting on a slide, I automatically s… more

Hey ladies, I had a rough 2-day natural labor and wanted to make gift baskets for the labor and delivery team, thoughts on what to include? What did you gift? TIA

We are expecting in October and grateful for my mom to come in help me as we navigate the first few months. My mom is not a US citizen (she’s an Indian citizen) and I’ll need to get her health insuran… more

When did you start solids with your baby? My little one is 5 months and my MIL is very eager for him to start solids but I feel like he isn’t ready. Additional context, my MIL is a physician but old s… more