I signed up to attend a conference in October that I'm really excited about. However, I'm currently 10 weeks pregnant and will be 17 weeks at the conference. This may sound silly but should I give my spot to someone else? I don't want to be the big pregnant lady at a conference while everyone is having fun and I'm struggling to keep up. Conversely, I don't think I should hide just because I'm pregnant. I can still do all the fun things, just won't be staying out late. Any advice?

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Is this your first pregnancy? 17 weeks is nothing- many women are barely showing at that point. Also, second trimester, likelihood is you may feel your best.
I’ve gone on 7-8 hour international work trips at 10 weeks, ~15 weeks, and ~29 weeks. It was fine.
You’re thinking too much - go if you’re excited about going.

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You may not even be showing at 17 weeks. I started a new job where the first week was at a major investor conference when I was 21 weeks pregnant. I don’t think anyone knew or would have cared if they knew.

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I was able to easily cover my 2nd pregnancy at 17 weeks by wearing stretchy wide leg trousers. No one had any idea.

IUGA Womens Dress Pants Wide Leg... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DCVFMGJ8?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

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You are a saint for sharing the link to something I didn't I needed. thank you!!

Definitely still go. Don’t let pregnancy take you out of opportunities!

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How do you feel now? Usually around 15-20 weeks is one of the best times to do things because you are out of the first trimester, getting some 2nd trimester energy but still not a huge bump to carry around.

If you are excited about it, definitely go.

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You should definitely go! You will likely be barely showing and will likely feel better than you do currently. I would also find it very odd if one of my employees didn’t want to go to a work event that early in pregnancy and not for a legitimate health concern. Go and have fun!

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I attended a training conference at 30 weeks. I needed comfy shoes and a big water bottle but otherwise it was great. (I couldn’t go on the roller coasters in the after party which was a bummer but still walked the park!)

If you are excited about it, absolutely go for it.

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Thank you all so much! I have a bit of a bulge now which I think is just bloat (my stomach just looks like I'm a bit out of shape but not pregnant lol), however, I'm hoping it subsides in the second trimester. Aside from that, I've had a really comfortable pregnancy experience thus far so I think I'll go!

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Good for you! FYI- I had bloat in two pregnancies that went from about 7 weeks to 12-13 weeks. And the bloat went away for a while before the real bump came in. :)
You’ll be good and still able to hide. Especially in October with layers!

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Definitely go! I’m 18 weeks with my second, and I show really early so I look very obviously pregnant, but I have been traveling a ton for work and am going to a conference next week. This is the part of pregnancy where I feel the best and have the most energy, and even though I am showing I am definitely not super big or uncomfortable yet, so I think it’s the perfect time to go to a conference! Wear compression socks on the plane though just in case.

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I would go to the conference! At 17 weeks I was barely showing! I did also go to a conference at 34 weeks and at that point I was def showing, however I still had lots of fun!

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