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Anyone know why baby moves more during a massage?

Hi Mommies, Has anyone have Bugaboo stroller? How do you like it?

Talk to me about dilation. I’m 2 cm at 35 weeks. Baby is low. How long do you think baby can stay cooking? Doctor didn’t have anything specific to say and it sounds like dilation doesn’t provide much … more

Anyone planning to get the new RSV vaccine between 32 and 36 weeks? I haven’t discussed with my obgyn yet but looks like it will be rolled out pretty broadly in the next few weeks…

Do I need to do kegels and pelvic floor exercises? What is the consequence if I do not? I’m 21 weeks pregnant and I haven’t done it yet. I also just feel too busy at the moment and I do not like the f… more

Scheduled for a version (ECV) due to breech baby. Anyone have experience with this? Heard it can be painful and doesn’t always work.

31weeks pregnant. Feeling contractions in the vaginal area for the last 15-20 minutes. What should be the trigger to call the doctor if it’s pre term labor? I’m really scared. And since they are in va… more

If my company has a 3 month tenure requirement policy to qualify for STD does the PWFA come into play in possibly having them adjust the policy so I can utilize STD for postpartum recovery?

Has anyone dealt with family members expressing disappointment over having a boy v girl? We just found out we are having a boy and told our parents and the first thing out of their mouths was - grandd… more

Maybe sensitive question — any unmarried couples or co-parents on here put together some sort of contract prior to having a child? Like a preemptive one just to have something in place for peace of mi… more

I need some advice. I work for a very small start up franchise company. I’m 1 of 7 in the company. 4/7 are family members. When I first got hired I asked about the maternity leave and they just said “… more

I am 5 months pregnant and went to a SPA earlier today (my husband and I had bought a holiday package some time ago) but I was refused treatment. They refused to do any back massage (which I understan… more

I found out I’m pregnant on Monday and tested positive for covid yesterday. My symptoms are bad and include fever, sore throat and cough. Has anyone else had covid in early pregnancy? Any advice? Shou… more

I am 6 months pregnant and starting to worry that my hospital is too far it’s an 1.5 hour drive from my home. Should I try and switch my on to a closer hospital. I moved in the middle of my pregnancy … more

I am towards the end of an interview process and am 6 weeks pregnant. Are companies required to disclose how many months one needs to work there in order to receive paid parental leave? I am horrified… more

Has anyone negotiated their maternity leave? I get 12 weeks total starting from the date of birth which is covered 60% by short term disability and 40% by my company. We also have unlimited PTO.

Question-how does short term disability work? Will I have to pay taxes on it when tax season comes around? Ie, do I need to set aside money from the payments? If anyone could share their experience th… more

I need help please....we have been trying for 6 months now and we are planning for IVF or to preserve our eggs. But not sure about the process and whether to go for IVF or not. Advice or guidance is r… more

Does anyone follow a strict diet where they have to eat a certain amount of veggies or egg a day for a healthy baby, brain development etc…? I’m 23 weeks now and realize I have not been eating the mos… more

Any advice on whether I should limit my travel at 33-34 weeks? When did you stop? Pregnancy is going fine and no risks

I find myself wanting a 3rd baby. I have a 1 and 2 year old so life is busy but I don’t want to get out of the baby game just to get back into it later. My biggest hang up is that have some great mome… more

Any job hunting advice. I am currently going to go on leave in December for 6 months with my company but wanted to start applying for new roles considering layoffs going on in consulting and not being… more

Does your partner come to all your prenatal appointments or just certain milestone ones?

I’m confused. My s/o and I were trying to conceive last weekend because I thought I was ovulating. But then this weekend I used the strips and noticed I was ovulating. So obviously my husband and I tr… more

What skincare products do you use during pregnancy? Looking ideally for “clean” products…Thanks

Can anyone recommend a good obstetrician in NYC?

My expectations are minimal - I don't necessarily want them to be empathetic or have "good bedside manners", but I want them to actually read my test… more

Is 25 wk mark an acceptable timeline to tell your teams about your pregnancy

I started work on Friday after maternity leave, I’m typically hybrid 2 days in, 3 days remote. They let me know starting today (Monday) I’d have to come in 5 days per week. I was given no notice and I… more

I am 26 weeks pregnant and was part of a layoff last week. Has anyone been through the job hunting and interview process while this pregnant? If so, when do you tell the prospective employer that you’re pre… more

Tips for sleeping for longer periods after 32 weeks? I have all the pillows but after a few hours my hips start really cramping so I have to keep flipping over and over. I feel like a rotisserie chick… more

How soon after having the baby will I feel like leaving the house with the baby?

Forgive my ignorance... but at what age will baby start being more observant of the world in a way that would make things like the zoo, children museums, little festival type things would be entertaining?
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Anyone else looking forward to pushing the baby out so they can go back to having lusty, juicy sex with their partner again? 😩😩 Oh, just me? Lol. My husband has been so timid and gentle since the bu… more

Hello Everyone - First-time father of a 3 month old. I was going to set up a 529 account for him, but in my sleep deprived state, should I open it in my name to get the tax deduction? Appreciate the h… more

Anyone had gestational diabetes? How did you control it?

Feeling blindsided. I started a new role last year and meticulously read all of the benefits information before accepting the offer and then review all of the help articles after I joined about the pa… more

What does it feel like when you can feel baby for the first time? I’m 19 weeks and today I have been feeling what is almost like a burning sensation on the lower right side of my stomach. It is not co… more

What’s the latest you would tell your team about your pregnancy? I’ve been at the same company for a couple years but joined a new practice right around the time I found out I was pregnant. I feel lik… more

What has your experience been with c-section?How’s the recovery? Any learnings?

When are you ladies planning to have a baby shower? Don’t have too many gal friends nearby, any alternate suggestions ? TIA