How do you casually date? Recently moved to a new city I didn’t know anyone in, met 2 girls I like and have gone on a few dates with but not sure I like them enough yet to like commit. Is it wrong to go on dates with both until I figure it out? Not sure what to do, getting into relationships makes me feel trapped and unsure for some reason

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Be upfront with the girls about the nature of your relationship and it won’t be a problem!

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This is normal

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(Cont.) But I want a serious relationship

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Nah, you don’t have to make a decision till the conversation is brought up. Keep enjoying yourself. In this day and age, you don’t think they’re also seeing other people while you’re not exclusive?

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Are you sleeping with both of them?

No I’ve only kissed them but I’ve been trying to avoid too much physical contact because I don’t want to be *that guy*

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