if youve been talking to someone for 3 months and u catch them in a lie by stalking their friend on IG, should you call them out or is that too crazy

Does Chicago have a secret sex society ?

Do you set up any standards when you date with anybody? I’m currently dating with a Mexican man. He is older than me 10 years old (I thought 6 when we first met). His job is construction and made less than me. He is insecure about the money but I’m not really. But, the one bothering me is that he is illegal immigrant. Other than that, He is a cure, nice and independent guy. When dating, he split money/ or want to cover for me. He cares about people around. I am happy but not sure about LT.

At a happy hour and my boss just told me she wants me. Currently in an Uber going back to her place. AMA

If your GF is interested in a 3some, what are your thoughts on that? 🤭

So I have been seeing a guy for 4 months. We have a pay disparity.. he earns less than I do (by quite a bit). He has mentioned a few times that he’s worried I’ll get bored of him when I know he can’t afford the same things I can. I think we are beginning to move past this, but now he’s starting to mention things like ‘I am really broke this month’, and last weekend he told me his mum has lost her job and he’ll have to probably pay her rent. I have a lot of sympathy for his situation … tbc

Any single lipstick lesbians here, what to chat 😉?

Anyone around Chicago and suburbs for general merriment and dating. 32 M, tall and a fit built

Looking for a female date to go to bemelmans bar tonight
I am a 35M Brit Indian. I have only 2 abs and great sense of humor. Also I’m only 5”5. Lord blessed me with superior quant skills for the lack of vertical reach. Thank you.

Any good drinks spots for a date night? Something with a frozen fruit drink or craft cocktails?

31M here. Met a girl last week, 31F, and we hit it off instantly. We have so much in common and everything feels right, tomorrow will be our 3rd date. She slept over last night, no sex, but we made out all night. I haven’t felt like this for anyone in a while and it feels amazing, but I’m scared to commit. I have this fear of getting hurt or putting in effort only for it not to last.

Do partners cheat on their significant others while traveling? Stories please.

For the F 🐠 - is it really that hard out there in your city? What’s been your biggest challenge with finding the right guy? Any regrets not making it work w/ an ex or friend zone guy from the past?

Any M up for a chat?

My husband does not show affection openly and is quite lazy in bed, and I thought I could deal with it because I love him, but it’s really really beginning to annoy me. For example, he refuses to do any foreplay and basically asks that I get on top of him most of the time when we have have sex- if I push him to do anything else he basically just refuses to have sex at all as some sort of ‘protest’. I am finding myself fantasising about an affair more and more

I’m 💁‍♀️🐠. Was in a long-term relationship that ended last year and since then I’ve been on an extended celibacy run to work on myself etc. I’m looking to get back into the dating scene. Part of me wants to just get some 🍆 action (to quench the thirst) then start to look seriously. Any advice on dating?

Why would a lesbian co-worker want to have sex with me-hetromale?

What’s the biggest issue you’ve faced with dating non-lawyers?

My date won’t share his playlist with me (I can listen to it but he won’t share it). Just curious, is playlist a big deal to guys? We are both at early 20s and only dated for a week

Are SaT VME team members allowed to work from Hyderabad location?

I had the first round with a consulting firm and it takes them more than a month to arrange the final round and the recruiter is not being responsive. Is that normal?

What is shift allowance in LTI

Any news on mid year hike for coming jan ??

Stop putting two spaces after periods, grandpa.

Looks like we've grown a little bit! Any midweek casual chat?

I'm heading up north for a two day assignment. Looking forward to constant wind and rain!

Koi batayega ye sensex ko kya ho rha hai? Paisa dalne k liye wait kar rha tha socha aur neeche jayega..aur upar ja rha hai.

My boyfriend and I make 200K combined and live in NJ. We have $1000 in monthly car payments combined. That’s all we owe. Our credit scores are in the 800s. We have 50K to put down on a home. We have done the math and I know we can afford much more but he doesn’t want to buy more than a 400K home. I’m almost positive we can afford 500K and be more than ok. But then he starts to talk about how much kids cost and how we will be house poor and we won’t be able to afford kids. 🤔 Am I insane??

What do you think it takes for a PPD to get a utilization bearing WBS for proposal work? I know it is rare...

Talk to me about discipline. What age did you really start laying down the law? Im patiently waiting out the terrible twos but at some point will need to reign it in if this continues...

Any recommendation for washer dryer?
1. Electric vs Gas 2. Front Load Vs Top Load. 3. Actual product recommendation. 4. Where to buy? Also same for refrigerator. Thank you

My house has very hard water, to the point where shower heads and aerators regularly get clogged with mineral deposits. Is a household water softener the best solution, or is there some sort of filter I could put on at the source to the house that I could clean regularly? Or other ideas?

Can you negotiate your restrictive covenant period? Asking for a friend who works in IB and their period is 3 months but his new employer wants him to start a bit earlier

I am planning to shift to Dubai with my wife. Looking for opportunities.
Hi!
I have 14 plus yrs of total experience with 9+ years of experience in Java, Springboot and Microservices. I work as Tech Lead.
My 13 years of Work experience is in Financial Domain.
1. How much Salary should I expect ?
2. How much is enough to live in Dubai in a good way without compromising on lifestyle.
3. My current CTC is 37 Lakhs INR (Inhand 227000 per month)
Thanks in advance

EY is splitting audit and consulting. Thoughts?

Cockapoo vs cavapoo? Easier dog to own

Bring back Trump’s market.

Reasons to stay in NYC? Kinda feel really sad living here.

I’m excited to marry my SO in a few months but I have severe stage fright and do not like being the center of attention. Any advice on how to reduce the anxiety and just enjoy the day?

Advice on dating someone long distance? Kinda big price tag just to see each other.

Any cat owners experience hot spots? My cat has been getting them 2-3 times a year for 2 years now and I'm worried there's an underlying cause

Anyway to slim down legs; just want to smooth out this massive imbalance that the body seems to favor to the downside

My 70+ year old dad just got on Facebook and kind of rocking it! He is just on there spreading the positivity. Ha ha

And he only had to create 4 accounts to do it.

Looking for a bingeable show that's not too serious. An easy watch type show that's only ~30 minute episodes... Thoughs??!!?

Everyone in my firm try so hard to be politically correct😍feel so included.

Don't mean to be rude. Plz tell me if this is rude. But whats your religion? Assuming it's ok to ask since we're all anon. I'm a non-practicing but was born in a Muslim country. Agnostic maybe?🤷🏻‍♂️

What random skills do you possess that can help during the pandemic? I'll go first-

I can make soap, beer and mead from home. Im gonna be drunk and clean!

These paychecks aren't cutting it. Side hustle ideas?

Haven’t seen bf in over 3 months due to COVID. Lately, he’s been pushing to see me but I don’t feel comfortable because he hasn’t been quarantining. He makes it sound like if I’m not willing to go see him might as well breakup. Any advice?

I bought my boyfriend the Valve Index for Christmas. What are some games I should buy him?

Hey- anyone been in the position where their seeing someone, but you’re not dating ? I’m seeing someone and he went on vacation without me and I’m sure he met some girls - he even admitted it but said

What are some things that help you get through busy season?

Played Xbox the other day for the first time in several years. I am terrible now, to be fair I wasn't anything special before. I kind of feel like the game has beaten me and I need to buy one just to practice and beat it. Ha ha

My gpa fell to a 3.0. I was working multiple jobs in college and had one really bad semester due to a traumatic event I went through. What are the chances the firm revokes my offer during a pandemic?