So was talking to this girl (we’re both mid late twenties) i met thru mutual friends and we hung out a few times/ texted a lot. I eventually had to move cross country and we slowly started texting less frequently & at a certain point she kinda ghosted me (lol I didnt pick up the signals). Recently found out I’m going to be going back to the same city in 6mo and theres a good chance I’ll run into her consistently since mutual friend groups/events. I dont want it to be awkward everytime…advice?

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I don't think there is advice to avoid the awkwardness, but you can have a few preloaded responses ready to reduce it.

If she acts like she doesn't wanna talk to you. Don't talk to her in equal amounts

If she acts like she really wants to talk to her. Chat with her and if you can get some private talk time clarify how you feel.(idk how you feel)

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