5 weeks 4 days pregnant and work trip to NYC for two days when I’m 6 -7 weeks
Nausea is already starting to hit and I’m a little panicking bc it’s 2 days of non stop early mornings to late evenings. How will I survive? I’m pregnant via IVF so the hormones are a little more intense than a standard pregnancy (I’m stilling several hormone supplements) help.

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Please prioritize yours and your baby’s health first. If you don’t feel like doing it, don’t go.

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100% find a way to skip it! When I was early pregnant I came down with the “flu” the night before and no one cared

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I second this.

Canceled my trip. My boss was totally fine with it, as he knew I was doing IVF. Feeling relieved, but also still very much 🤢

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Can your doctor give you medicine for nausea? I took the kind that’s safe for pregnancy, and it was the only way I got through my first trimester.

Otherwise, like others said, can you “get sick” and skip or dial in virtually?

Btw - congrats!

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Congrats! Being sick is a good sign (despite being miserable). If at all possible I would plead illness. Otherwise, start experimenting to see what helps. Ginger candy and goldfish were my go to.

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Tell them you're sick and can't attend. If they press, say you're vomiting and can't keep anything down so you won't be attending.

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I found peppermint candies really helped quell the nausea. 8-10 weeks were the worst the things got better once I stopped the progesterone shots and got to the end of my first trimester. Hang in there and congratulations!

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I HATE the shots, the amount of tired I feel the day I do them is insane

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I haven’t even had my first ultrasound yet, but that’s what I was going to ask once there. I can email my nurse and see if that’s an option. I wasn’t expecting to feel this sick so early

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