Am I over reacting? Opposing counsel sent partner and me an email. Nothing urgent. Our office is closed today and I can see no one, including partner, was online. I saw the email while out and about with my family. Sent partner a quick note about something administrative and unrelated to the case. Partner responded to my admin email and also asked if I could forward OC’s email to client and ask about XYZ. Told partner I would.

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Just say when you’ll send it next time. “I’ll get that out when I’m back at my computer this evening.”

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If I asked a junior to send an email to the client and hours later it still hadn’t been done, I would assume they forgot. Whether or not it was urgent is irrelevant.

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A1, in that case you should ping the junior to remind them and ask them to send. Not just send it for them.

You chose to email on a routine matter, which signaled “I’m working”. Then you said “will do,” which signaled “will do now because I’m working.” When the partner later went through email and saw you hadn’t done it, he or she took care of it so it got done. If you’re in “family time” don’t check your email and email people on routine matters.

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I think if you’re reading passive aggressive this partner probably is in other ways and your read is right. I wouldn’t assume someone would do something within an hour on a day off unless I asked. I had a partner do this to me all of the time when I was an associate and it 💯 was passive aggressive. Either way, with this particular partner I would start being clearer on when you can do things whether during a work day or otherwise, especially if they feel like less than one hour is the response time on an off day.

I also disagree with the above that just because you’re emailing means you’re available on any and all matters. As attorneys we are conditioned to check email all of the time; that doesn’t mean we are at a computer and able to give something that requires substantive attention that level of attention all of the time. Checking emails regularly to keep an eye on things is just part of the job, sadly.

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Hour later I see the partner sent the email to the client. I was planning to send when I was finished with family time and at my computer in the evening getting ducks in a row for the week ahead. This isn’t the first time this has happened. It just seems unnecessary and ruined my mood for the day. I would understand if it was something urgent (in which case I would have sent on my phone while out with family) but it wasn’t. Not only that but our office and client’s office was closed today, so the email probably won’t be read until tomorrow anyway. Maybe I’m over thinking it and the partner just sent it because they happened to be at their computer later, but to me it just seems like needless micromanaging and passive aggressive.

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Yes, while this might feel aggressive and unfair the solution here is over communication.

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Wow, really sorry about you’ re situation

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