Any other lonely married people?

My mom says to marry a man who loves me, not a man who I love. Happily married wives: thoughts?

Need advice: 30 Weeks and feel like third trimester has been an emotional rollercoaster. Get upset very easily and any small comment made by my husband makes me cry. Tonight I was by myself for dinner and could not stop crying and feeling anxious, scared and alone. I don’t know if this is depression or just hormonal. Has anyone felt like this ever or I should take it more seriously and talk to my provider about it in my next visit?

Anyone file for divorce without a lawyer if both parties are consenting? How does it work when you don’t have any joint assets (separate bank accounts, no house) and no kids? Married <5 years

Family member saw me working out hard and called me a "retard" for pushing myself being at max speed and "making faces". Seriously? When you push hard, it's supposed to be - hard. No?

Just lost out on two potential clients because they said they were concerned about how many clients I have. Currently have approx 250 households ( Ed Jones speak for mailing groups). I never thought that was a lot but now I am reevaluating. Curious as to how many relationships you all manage.

I grew up in a small Texas town. The dudes from school are mostly married. I moved back here til the Rona settled down. But the remaining unmarried feel that since I am also unmarried (F) - we must surely be destiny. Omg save me! I can’t...

Help!! Our 10-year-old is out of control and destroying our family. He always had behavioral issues but quarantine has made our lives a living hell. (Cont’d)

Getting over heartbreak and having a full time job is torture lol. My boyfriend and I just broke up after almost a year of being together. It was such a beautiful relationship but ultimately he just didn’t love me. I love him so much. My mind knows that I deserve reciprocal love and I’m worthy, but I feel physically ill. My body hurts, my stomach is in knots, my head hurts. How is it that I have to mend a broken heart but also meet my billable hours lmao

I’m in this business to cure my inferiority complex. Making lots of money, working with fortune 500 clients and walking the streets of NYC with a suit, tie and briefcase makes me feel important and worthy.

I often wish I could be like my law school friends who either moved to small towns or have public sector or non profit jobs, wear sweaters and jeans to work and make far less than me, but are happy with their lives, feel a sense of meaning with their work and don’t need external validation.

Any Muslim moms here?

A few extravert friends texted me over the weekend, panicking about WFH mandates and being socially isolated. I do not share their pain! Nice of them to care, though ❤️

Taking family trip to Chicago mid-September. Any family friendly recs good for an 18 month toddler (things to do, non fancy lunch spots, etc)? Also thinking residence inn downtown for space. Others?

Um, I feel like my BF of almost 4yrs (1 living together) and I are on the brink of separating. I think COVID is putting it into perspective. We’ve gotten through the worst of the quarantine while supporting each other as best we could (very thankful for him). But his coping skills with stress (during covid) are lacking and as things progressed he’s just been taking it out on me more and more in the moment, then he feels awful for not treating me as well as I deserve (he treated me well before..)

Any tips on helping my remote bond/feel more connected with each other?

Out of your friends or friend group, how are you guys doing in life and career. Best guess.

1) Best
2) Better than most.
3) middle of the pack.
4) I’m struggling.

For me 3

Any female lawyer who has a baby in their first year in BL? How was the experience pre and after the baby?

Unsure if my bf and I are incompatible or if I’m not compromising enough. How do you know the difference? He has so many great qualities that I love but also lacks some qualities that I would like to have but idk if I would be giving up on someone that is great for little things.

How would you all handle your best friend dating your ex boyfriend? She has been a close friend for many years, but things are still feeling a little awkward and I don't know if I should still be close friends with her or let it go?

So much baggage brought into the relationship. 2 years in and just discovered a whole lot more. Its been mentally extremely difficult and it’s changed me as a person. Just venting but feel hopeless and I know my SO is suffering. Wish there was a solution but I’m losing hope

I know this isn’t a marriage therapy bowl, but my husband has a really terrible tendency of saying things like “you’re being really mean” and completely shutting down during a disagreement when i objectively am not being mean, just truthful or vocal about how i feel about something. It’s a really convenient argument for him because it enables him to either be the victim and me the villian, or forces me to concede my stance and not reach a true resolution. Any tips on dealing with the irrational?

We’re losing employees, understandably so, because of how customers behave. That means longer wait times for support which makes customers even angrier. What happens when there is no one left to do the job?

Hi can someone refer me for data management roles?

Doing some career planning and wanted some advice. I have 4 years for project management experience in production and I just started PMing at an ad agency.

1.How long should I stay in this position before making my next move?
2. What should my next move be?! (Stay in the company and try to scale up or move on.)
3. Would getting my PMP at this point be helpful?

Hello Everyone,
I am currently working as a Scrum Master, i am seeking some guidance on the new developments and hence want to join communities. Any suggestions?

So I dated a girl last year then things didn’t work out but we remained friends and kept in touch throughout the year (also meet up for coffee, beach day, etc) but nothing ever happened after we called it off. Now she moved to the city where I live and her parents came visiting her. She wanted them to meet me. She was really happy and she wanted to go out for lunch all together again. (Continue below)

Hi Fishes

I have one doubt i have 9+ year experience in Mainframe
Now i want to switch to Big Data (Doing some online course)


Is it possible to switch to big data from mainframe
Also how to say in interview rwgarding mainframe and big data


Kindly guide advise please please

How would switching to big 4 tech consulting at 2 YOE look for mba applications? Would it hurt? Looking to matriculate 2023 or 2024 but don't want this move to hurt me if I do it.

Anyone looking for positions within life sciences consulting focused on commercial and development strategy projects? My firm is hiring and I can discuss more details offline.

I got offer from wipro for 12LPA (11 fixed + 1 VP). What will be the in-hand salary ?

Does anyone have any insight into working at a vein clinic? I just got a job offer and want to make sure I'm getting paid appropriately.

Alt + Tab. iykyk

Any recommendations for learning Mulesoft? I used it a bit a few years ago, but I don't remember much. How much has it changed since being bought by SF?

What’s the going rate for an implementation manager with 4 years of service. Primarily in the PBM world

If you got fired tomorrow, how long can you go without a paycheck? Assume you get 1 week of pay for every 6 months worked, and then can do unemployment after that ($425 a week)

Any ladies at DU this week?

Has anyone ever mass applied to jobs with the sole requirement being minimum compensation of $500k

Looking for Java, Springboot Developers. Kindly DM if you looking out for change or anyone you know is looking having experience in these Skill-set.
Flexible work culture with Prominent WFH.
P. S: Hiring very aggressively, can offer better CTC as per the market standards.

Any good books/reads to learn aspects of Account Management / Engagement Management in context of tech consulting?

I am signing an offer this week at a different consulting firm, but want to stick it out through my project at my current firm over the next month. (Actually really enjoy the project just think the other firm is a better fit).

Am I obligated (morally or otherwise) to tell my firm that I’ve signed another offer? Or is it ok to stay on and work?

(Don’t have to start at the new firm for another month after that).

Recently joined a project that’s been in flight for long time. Onboarding hasn’t been great, not sure who my Point of contact is, where we are in the process (since they started such a long time ago and the SoW is outdated by at least 2 years), what the objectives are for this phase of work. Manager sort of just says things that suggests I should know, which deters me from asking Qs. They recently came across as a bit annoyed when I’d ask a few Qs. Not sure if they fee the onboarding decks…tbc

Do you "work" other than transition or KT after you are told you're being laid off? Just curious what level of work I should provide til my last day.

Does any of online case practices actually work? They are super pricy... I'm wondering what they offer vs free resources... Would appreciate any recommendations (book, website, program, etc).

Best consulting companies in the social sector?

Promontory folks

I'm intrigued by a position listed but not sure if the levels are comparable to Deloitte.
Are there any former Deloitte folks working @Promontory ? If so appreciate if you could DM thanks

Finally getting a chance to put together a home office space. Looking for tips, photos, ideas. I have two monitors and a laptop so my do a three screen set-up. Debating about getting a standing desk or putting money in a super comfy leather chair. Open to hearing what you have done!

Having an interview at McKinsey in their Risk practice. Should I expect the standard cases (Profitability, 4Ps, etc.), or some more practice specific? Thank you!

SAP people - would you quit your current company and work for SAP consulting ?? Anyone heard much about them ??

Someone needs to create an app that will scan all of your social media accounts for references of a company you're about to pitch to so you can delete them if they're bad #everybodystalks

Wanting to make a shift into strategy/mgmt consulting from HealthIT. Any good books out there to help prep? Looking for anything but preferably technical information to prepare for an interview.

Which Canadian B school MBB or other top consulting firms regularly recruit from?

Looking to get my resume professionally done, and LinkedIn revamped. Any recommendations? Preferably without breaking the bank!

If consulting companies were countries, which one is yours? I think D is Germany - professional, perfectionist, time-efficient and growing in population by virtue of immigrants from Asia

Looking for some material for a crash course in IT strategy consulting - books article etc. any recommendations would be appreciated

Has anyone used gliders that stick on tyres of office chair, for better movement over the carpet?

Top consulting firms in the Aerospace / Aviation,l or Defense / Intelligence spaces? Looking for business or tech strategy jobs here