Be honest… AITA for having a black tie (not black tie optional) wedding knowing that some of my extended family doesn’t own tuxedos and would have to rent? I intentionally did this because my extended family dresses horribly. My fiancé and I are paying $150k for the wedding so I feel like we can do whatever we prefer but I also feel like a brat

On MBA resumes, how should I describe my company? Work for a company that the ad comm probably won’t know. What details should I include?

Going to join D M&A IT. What can I expect? What should I prep for? How do you all update your technical knowledge?

Stay safe during the Tropical Storm everyone!

Bore kodutondi.. emaina movies recommend cheyandi please 😊

My current position offered me more money. How do I ask the job I just accepted to match?

Any thoughts on buying the PRCH dip? One of the high valuation stocks that got killed the last 6 months; however strong analyst consent that this is a Buy.

Anyone interested in having a meetup in NYC in April and exchange our FIRE experience?

What are the best resources you’ve found that walks you through step-by-step, the data incident management process and what to ask your client?

How much of a notice does one typically get before their biometrics appointment for GC EAD?

Anyone who can share their experience with the Harvard Extension School?

Is $120k base salary for a mass spec job (PhD entry level) in San Diego reasonable?

Any recommendations for a strong performance media agency?

I’m planning to spend about $300-400K / month.

I’ve engaged a couple independent agencies already but got turned down because we’re “too small”

How is it different being staffed in Practices Vs Delivery in Capgemini - Sogeti BU.

How is Apple WLB? Hearing longer weeks and crazier hours than consulting, which surprised me

Has anyone gotten out of their AFM sig status? I'd love to hear about it if you have. TIA.

How do you pick your fights with management during promotion year for scheduling?

Little worries here guys - not able to transfer to Bittrex. Tried from Polo and Jaxx (cold storage). Transaction looked like it was going thru from Jaxx then seemed like it failed. ETH appeared back in Jaxx account and no changes to trans history...thoughts?

I have an interview with IKEA for Azure DE/ Devops role. Kindly share sample questions and experience?

🚖Is BNY provides free transport/cab service like other banks ( Credit Suisse, CITI, UBS etc...) ?

What is the most creative or simplest way you’ve explained what an IO Psychologist does to a non-IO? I’ll go first, “Our job is to help make work suck less for people.”

Did you have someone doing hair/makeup for bridesmaids or did you have them do their own? And were you glad you made the decision you did? I’ve been in weddings both ways and trying to decide what I want to do

What do you think about lab-grown diamonds? My fiance and I are trying to be as ethical as possible, and lab-grown sounds like an awesome idea, but we're wondering about the quality and longevity. Any thoughts would be appreciated!

I don't wear a lot of makeup - how far in advance from the ceremony should I be getting it done? Is having it all done 2 hrs before the ceremony too late or too early? I'm not getting pictures done until ceremony and after. Thanks!

If I got married on a Sunday, could I use the flowers from the wedding the night before? (Anything they were going to leave behind like hanging installations) Seems like a waste for that decor to be trashed and an opportunity to pay it forward. Has anyone done this?

How far out should I be booking my florist? Wedding is 10 months away, not sure what we’ll need quite yet!

Thoughts on kindly asking your bridesmaids to please not give a gift? I am over the moon excited that my bridesmaids will be celebrating me and traveling for the wedding and bachelorette. I really do not want a gift from them at the wedding. Full disclosure, my fiancé and I have great paying jobs and my bridesmaids are grad students, artists, and teachers. How would you frame this? Even if they were millionaires I would not want a gift, but I don’t want it taken the wrong way.

Anyone do their own bridal makeup? Any advice or thoughts?

My partner and I are planning to elope. We want the wedding and the trip that will go with it to be for us. That being said, we want to throw a party of some kind to celebrate with our friends. We're pretty lost as far as the general etiquette around this goes. Do you have to tell venues it's for a "wedding" reception? Is it expected that we will still make a gift registry?

Is a hair and makeup trial really necessary? It seems like such a waste of money.

We’re having an Indian wedding on a Sunday with ceremony in the morning, followed by lunch, and then cocktail hour + reception.

Given that the wedding starts early, we will have guests (~30) flying in the day before. What is the expectation in terms of arranging dinner for them? We’re trying to avoid having an additional event Saturday night - any idea on if these guests would need to have food arranged for them by us and what that could look like on a cost effective budget.

My stepmom threw me a very elaborate bridal shower. My stepsister pitched in and also did a lot of work for it. Bridesmaids helped but didn’t do a ton. What, if anything should I do for my stepmom and stepsister as a showing of gratitude? I don’t want to spend a lot of $$ but definitely want to act quickly and thoughtfully.

Does anyone have a recommendation for a good premarital counselor in NYC or NJ?

Budget question! How much are you estimating spending per guest? This includes food/alcohol/venue, etc

Typical prices for wedding photography in a high cost of living city? (San Francisco) 2 photographers, 8 hours, no travel. Much appreciated! ❤️

So, we have a wedding registry and my fiance and I would really like people to stick to gifting us what's on that registry. Yet, people keep asking what they should get us. The thought of dealing with a ton of crap we don't want or need is stressing me out. How can I politely tell people to only buy what's on the registry?

Anyone unsure of what to do for bridesmaids “proposals?” I want them to get excited and feel special but when I see how much money I’d be spending on things like custom totes or mugs I’m like is it really worth it? I’d send cards but most of my bridal party I see pretty regularly/they live nearby so it seems odd to send them something when I live down the street. Help! 😅

How much are you spending on photography? (I’m looking at 2 photographers, 8 hours) I live in the Bay Area

How much are y’all spending on your videographer and what all are they providing?

For those who have already had their weddings, what advice do you have? Anything you could change?

Getting married in September, have a vax only policy for guests. My fiancé’s sister is bringing her unvaccinated spouse to the hotel where all the wedding festivities are being held b/c she is too scared to fly on an airplane without him. I find this incredibly uncomfortable and selfish given it will put me and my fiancé in an uncomfortable position (and it will also put my elderly parents and other vulnerable fam members at risk). Any ideas as to what (if anything) to do?