Been hanging with this woman for 6 months now, and while we initially planned to be platonic, things took an interesting turn a few months ago since she basically asked me to hook up with her and took all the steps to make that happen.

After that first instance, she asked to be friends, but hasn't really been good about the boundaries, which eventually lead to us hooking up again, and she blamed me for not being more steadfast about boundaries. Am I in the wrong?

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I think she likes it better when it's forbidden. Was she raised catholic?

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“All my friends are toxic…”

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Start tracking her cycle.

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Romantic

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It takes two to tango so…

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Let her tell whatever she wants. Enjoy while it lasts.

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Lot of fish in this bowl.

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Why does this matter..

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She sounds exhausting. Do you have any long term goals with her or are you okay with her wasting your time?

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I did, but now I'm questioning if that's such a good idea.

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