Dating as an male software engineer is 1000x easier in Asia than in the American west coast. Do yourself a favor and move immediately or you will never get laid again. NYC is decent but Asia is even better if male software engineer. Exception always exists for white guy of course if you like Asian girls.

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I assure you no one gives a single f*** what your occupation is. Act like a normal, decent human being and you'll have no problems wherever you go. Your geographic location doesn't factor into this in any way; if you're a slovenly, disrespectful, fascistic weirdo, you're not gonna be successful. It really is extraordinarily simple.

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Tip #1: stop listening to Rogan and Peterson or anyone who identifies as an incel, PUA, or MGTOW, and start actually listening to women, and soon enough you'll find yourself back on easy mode.

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Which city ?

Would recommend Singapore, Hong Kong, and Taipei.

Of course, you're all male SWEs West Coast, so go figure :)

I would wager OP is AMP-ing because having stayed over half a year in asia recently in A-list circles, I can assure you no one cares about SWE.

In fact, the stereotype is a balding middle aged uncle or skinny nerd. In asia, entrpreneur, senior management, net idol, and finance are the most respected, Saying you're SWE might get a compliment, "oh. so you're smart". But that's about it. Also, the most developed ones (China, Japan, Korea) prefer their own race.

tldr: being rich improves your chances greatly independent of occupation, but that's true anywhere.

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