Did anyone else start hating their job once they became a midlevel because now there is an expectation that you 1) run deals 2) train juniors and 3) be perfect ???

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Just wait till you’re a senior. If you do an amazing job, you’re just doing your job. If you drop the ball, make a wrong call or don’t know the answer to something you should know, well…

But honestly, junior to mid it is a very difficult transition (as is going from mid to senior) but I actually loved being a midlevel. You will get more and more comfortable in your knowledge and experience (although you never feel entirely comfortable or you’re doing it wrong). As compared to when you’re very junior which can be a constant anxiety train of “IHNI what’s going on why are my life decisions 😭”

I also love training/mentoring juniors. It’s a great way to (1) make yourself feel smart, (2) clarify your own understanding because you have to explain it to others, (3) help someone else who may be struggling and terrified, (4) develop lifelong relationships. I have midlevels now I trained from their first year and it’s so great to see how they have grown and improved and to know I was a part of that. They also can be a huge help to me on my deals because they know how I like to run things without my having to tell them every little thing and I know a few of them really look up to and appreciate me in return. It’s not going to work out even a majority of the time - many juniors are going to leave for other opportunities, are just not cut out for biglaw and can’t/won’t learn, or their working styles just don’t mesh with yours. But them’s the breaks.

My point being, I know it’s hard, but put in the effort now. It will pay off in the long run. And even if juniors you put a ton of effort into training do leave, if they leave with a good impression of you, it can only help you in life. You never know where they may end up in the future, perhaps at one of your clients and/or somewhere you may like to work yourself.

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I hope people like you become partners or management

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If by train, you mean do the work of, then yes.

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Definitely more nagging

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Yes.

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