Do you find yourself comparing to others? Your ex coworkers; friends etc?

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I used to, but I have to say, the moment I found my passion/hobby... all my focus (and money hah!) went into that. I started biking and it is a total mind release and a killer workout. Now I'm just focused on my own improvement. Find a fun new hobby!

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Yes, but it's something I'm trying to stop doing. It's super toxic and it's a losing game. A lot of it is just human nature in a way, but I've been talking myself out of it/through it by reminding myself of my worth and how pointless comparison is. When I catch myself doing it, I just think: What value is this comparison adding to my life? 10/10 times, it's none

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I try to keep myself busy with random things but I think I should come up with something specific! Any suggestions?

Sadly :(

Women will always do that. it's in our DNA. I don't think that will change until women is treated equal across the globe

Always someone would be better than us and someone would be less than us.. So, I don’t bother about it.

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