Does anyone else get really nervous at job interviews? I keep thinking about how I need this job for rent and food, so it feels like life or death. On top of that, I'm shy but feel pressure to act extroverted. How do you stay calm and not put the interviewer on a pedestal?

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I hate to interview, and used to stress out over it. I am an introvert except when I talk to people about what I do. I have gotten to the point where I don't stress an interview. Either they like me, or they don't. If not, their loss. Its a craps shoot either way, because at the end of the day, you really don't know. I've left interviews thinking I had a good repour with someone and just "clicked" and then never heard from them again. I have also had interviews where I was counting the seconds until it was over and gotten called back/offered the job. My advise is be yourself. Be the same person in the interview that will show up on Monday when they offer you the job.

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I usually remind myself that it's just another conversation, and I try to make some small talk at the outset just to get myself acclimated. I avoid thinking about how what I'm about to do could change my life for years. There are some breathing exercises I learned that can help me calm down, but I don't usually need to resort to those. I usually feel pretty tense at the start, but once the conversation starts to unfold I'm okay.

I know this is easier said than done, but try to remember that one interview rarely decides your entire future. Even if this one does not work out, it is practice that makes the next one better. Managers expect nerves. We only get concerned when someone is arrogant or completely unprepared.

stack your money up, find a part time security job to help with job searching. going for an interview with nothing lined up is putting all your eggs into one basket. im not saying it is wrong, but i am saying you'll def get pressure.

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