During interview I was speaking to the hiring manager. Felt interview was going well. He seemed impressed by my answers, excited by my skills, and even gave me a tour of the office. At the end, he asked about my home life. When I spoke of my 3 young kiddos, the manager got a little taken back and replied Oh you have children? I said yes ages 3, 5, and 7. He then proceeded to ask me about daycare arrangements and if I can be reliable. Red flag as his demeanor changed and made me feel unworthy.

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Wow this is bs, take this and keep it moving. Any job that asks about your personal life in that way is a red flag.

I don’t know what’s worse jobs knowing you have a family and needing a steady income to support your family. Or them being intimidated by a woman with a family who is showing skills that display she is reliable lol. Like how in the world do they think??

I am sorry to hear you went through this but it sounds like you dodged a bullet!

I’m sorry but that’s highly inappropriate on his part .

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