Have begun staying off mute in every meeting to remind my co-workers of the absolute chaos parents are still working through. They were supportive at first but kinda forgot along the way.

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Definitely the way to go if it's after 5.

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I do it as a friendly reminder.

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Great idea.

Ooooo. Love it!

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