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Was with a girl from a different caste since college days. Now i actually didnt mind that she was from a different caste and we started just on this fact knowing we will hit it off without bringing the caste barrier. Both happy spent many years together and after like 5-6 yrs started getting hints that she began taking caste into consideration.. mayb becoz of parents or whatever.

#RANT_ALERT

The pathetic part was that I had commitment issues which she knew very well and after so many years when she gained my trust and i thought of getting serious and was thinking about asking for marriage she dropped the "CASTE ALAG HAI" bomb on me.

Wont make u cry with this story becoz after this i realised caste jab indian education system se nai hata to vo 1% lucky log bahot mushkil se sath hote hai.

#HAPPINESS_ALERT

Before i thought of becoming Kabir Singh i met a wonderful girl and we are getting married soon. I couldnt imagine my life if the previous relationship hadnt ended i couldnt imagine if i would have been so happy as I am today.

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@Nagarro 1, Thank you so much for sharing your story, and making us aware of the incidents happens.

Best wishes for your upcoming married life.

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@Nagarro 1, I relate 100% with part 1 of your story. We were friends for 2-3 yrs, became very close and started dating after that. I came to know during our initial frndship years that she had a serious BF in college but her parents were totally against marriage due to caste diff. I thought it would be diff in my case. Time passed, we started dating and her parents started finding matches in same community for her. Then covid happened, she went to her hometown and within 6 months she got married to a guy from her community. She put in a FB post mentioning something like “the man of my dreams”…
Shattered as I was, I picked myself up, focused on my work and grew a lot since then. but even today 2 yrs later I look back at the time we spent together and regret on a missed life with her. She never fought for me or even intended to, that’s the saddest part for me.

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From my exp i can tell you. You will find someone who loves u more than anything. Be patient and you will never ever think back. Also remember KARMA IS A BIATCH. So goodluck to her 😁

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