Hello folks,
My FET is this Saturday and I’m not able to concentrate on work. My project is coming to an end by Feb end and as the manager, I need to create the case for extension (which has been an ongoing discussion since Jan). I usually enjoy the intellectual stimulation of building a business cases but right now, I just want to go home and sleep. I feel so lonely at work that I can’t share this monumental stage in my life. Any advice on how to handle myself?

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Hormones are a real issue! I’ve had 3 FET since August… my husband learned grace to say the least.

Try not to worry about work the next 14 days until you get your beta results, only focus on what makes you happy and calm in this time. Use earbuds to find music that brings you peace and enjoyment. I swear by meditation music for my pre and post ivf ritual… If you are good at your job they will see that and you will likely transition into something very soon.

Transfers are not the time to stress, the body knows. Surround yourself with people that support you as much as possible over the upcoming weeks.

You have invested too much into this journey to not give it your all.

And good luck!! Sending baby dust🥰

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🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾. I pray you have a successful FET. When I had mine, I was able to work remote , which was less stressful. Last thing you need to do is stress. 💕

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I would suggest not to take any stress with work , it will be there always. Just relax till you get beta results

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