Hi All, seeking some advice for eldest sister
35F ( will turn 35 this december)
Descent and pretty
Earns 25+ lpa
Expectation: the boy at least should earn 15+ lpa
Same caste or even open to Same linguistic community. And no fancy monetary expectations.
She is either approached by people who keep her waiting or ghost her.
My entire family is worried that she'll end up alone. She is an introvert, sensitive and has a clean heart.
What is going wrong with her? How should my family handle this?

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Girls usually start looking for groom under 25 and some does after 25.. I'm sure you have been looking for 5-10 years, and maybe had high expectations/conditions/she was in relationship before and also she must be too career focused and rejected guys.. people always focus on career and then regret later instead they can make money after marriage too.

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You should have set your expectations realistic in the beginning. I'm sure you would have rejected so many matches for small small thing at the start. Now, you get what you get. Accept it or skip marriage.

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Yes, the expectations are genuinely simple. I know it is hard to believe for some people. Anyway, thank you :)

Wow such situations exists. I always thot men would end up like this.
She'll find someone, why don't you set her up with someone.

Unfortunately, yes. We have even asked her to look out on her own. But, she didn't find anyone may be due to her shy and introverted nature.

What's the caste/language?

Maharashtrian

If it's not the expectations in terms of salary then I think it's the looks.

People who you like might not like you and vice-versa.

So people should know when to compromise else situations like this are normal these days

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