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This is purely my opinion but for me I think all those things were in an effort to feel in control. I made my self miserable making myself ‘well’ took all the supplements focused on meditation, exercise, acupuncture.. etc. and in the end what made the difference was a protocol adjustment.
Although I did like acupuncture!
agreed M1. And to add to what you have said above, the moment I stopped trying to be in “control”, that was when the embryo transfer worked. I stopped obsessing over supplements, exercise, food etc. I hate to say oh just relax and let go because that’s not what people want to hear, however when I left it all to fate and said hey if it works great, if not great. This was when I had success. I mean plus the protocol adjustment by my doctor.
OP I know it’s not easy, but hang in there. Some days will be rough but go through it and don’t dwell there. Hoping and praying for the best for you. ❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hi all. I have an update. Out of the 3 eggs, one fertilized and went out for testing. Unfortunately it came back aneuploid :(
I just did a duostim (luteal phase stimming). My retrieval was Monday, I got 2 eggs, only one mature and it fertilized. I hear back if it made it to blastocyst next Monday.
I have one more shot but if I’m being honest, as much as I’m trying to hold onto hope, I guess you can say I’m not holding my breath. I’m honestly tired and beginning to feel burned out from this process. My past embryos have come back aneuploid and it’s been taxing and heart breaking. Sometimes I wonder if I’ll even get one. Has anyone ever had many ivf cycles and eventually got one euploid?
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I changed my diet (tried gluten free, eating more omega 3s, no processed foods) I’ve read It Starts With The Egg and followed the advice. I’m using clean beauty products and haven’t worn perfume since the spring. I even had an ovarian prp procedure several weeks ago. I’m trying hard to take it one day at a time. Idk what I’m trying to ask here, but, does it get better?
A few ways I’ve coped
- in between treatments do the big travel if you can. The kind of places and activities that would be a logistical challenge with young children. If you can’t do that just get outside into nature and touch grass. Walks in the park work fine too.
- take a class, do something that gives you energy. Dance, ceramics, cooking, whatever speaks to you.
- rest a lot and feel free to skip a few social events. Especially if everyone has children but you as that can be triggering.
- write down what you are feeling and talk to a therapist or trusted family, colleague, or friend.
Thank you all so much for your kind words. I’ve had my egg retrieval yesterday - got 3. My nurse emailed us this morning that one egg was mature and fertilized. I’ll find out more details Thursday.
Also want to mention I’m going into a 2nd stim cycle (as i have 6 small follicles that cropped up mid cycle). Dr advised I do Follistim to help them grow and see what happens.
At this point, I have nothing left to lose and I’m giving it to God.
Rising Star
How about changing providers?
I’ve switched providers earlier this year after my 3rd ivf cycle with my previous provider.
Unfortunately going to a 3rd provider isn’t an option for me at this time.