How do you all deal with burn out? Between work, my side hustles, and my family life I feel like I am working on E. I'm falling asleep in the middle of the day, and can hardly sleep at night. Even my partner says I've been taking on too much. Any advice?

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You can’t give everyone and everything in your life 100% - prioritize what needs you the most

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Evidently you are taking on too much but the question I would ask is why are you taking on so much?

For example the side hussles what are they and are they necessary? Is there a way you can restructure your work to fit your lifestyle?

I would also consider speaking to a councillor about this because working yourself to this level of exhaustion is concerning and if your partner is also pointing it out it’s going to take a toll on more than just your mental health

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I just left a position that expected me to work a lot of hours. In fact, PTO was just another word that really meant, "I'll be working remotely." I have made a lot of people a lot of money. I am starting my 2nd side hustle and plan to expand that into a full time business.

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I’m not sure that I understand the infatuation people have with side hustles. Most people will do better at their job (and earn a higher salary/perhaps a promotion) when they focus at work. Also, the side hustle eats into family time. Spreading yourself too thin is a recipe for not being good at anything. Drop the hustle. If you need a better job to cover the lost income, get one. Be present at work when working and home when at home. Your stress will dissipate.

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Fair point on the job comment

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It depends on what your side hustle entails. I spend, on average, 3 hours a month tops and get an additional $20k year. The easy money is too easy to give up. That money pays for trips and bills.

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I know that’s right! Side hustles should not be a headache 🤕. Congrats 🎊

For the people who are curious, my side hustles are tailoring and painting. I'm prepping for the one art fair I do a year, and I have maybe 3 clients rn for my tailoring business. I think that one may be the one I need to cut back on...

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What a wonderful and useful skill. Even though you're thinking about pulling back, it's pretty cool you've found unique options for enjoyment outside of work

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We all have a finite amount of time, energy and willpower. The only answer is to do less, after figuring out what is the most important / impactful. Why are you doing so much, what is it offering you? Is it really worth the burnout?

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Check your HR document. What are your options for a sabbatical or a short leave? Is their real income in these side hustles? If so focus on them while on sabbatical. 3-6 months including pto or comp days. Def read your employer’s handbook & check options good luck 🍀

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Agree you need to prioritize and only worry about what is within your control.

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