I graduated this year and have experience from a law firm internship and a university law clinic, but I’m still struggling to get a job in family law.

The pressure is getting overwhelming and my anxiety is constant. Every role wants more experience, even though I'm happy to start as a legal assistant or paralegal.

I’ve contacted many firms, but they just redirect me to email and never respond. I’m losing hope.

Any advice?

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Coming from a family lawyer, you don’t want to do family law lol

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Consider estate planning. It has similar aspects (property law, counseling) but less war. It takes a long time to learn the technical aspects (so as to not be a dangerous estate planner), but consider broadening your scope. People appreciate you more than their divorce lawyer, and you develop longer-term relationships with clients and families. There is a shortage of us, too.

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Speak to a recruiter. They may be able to place you!

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I’ll definitely try, thank you!

Can your school help? I would think they have some connections if they have a program. Maybe the university law clinic could help? Is there a local legal administrator organization that may have openings

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I also am having trouble landing a position. I graduated may 2024 with a paralegal degree and did an internship. I’ve been applying to firms but still haven’t landed a spot. They require 3+ years experience. Anxiety is high but I’m trying to stay positive! I’ve done research and they say to send cold emails to firms so I will try that.

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If you need experience, volunteer at free or low cost legal clinic or service in your area.

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What aspect of family law are you trying to break into? If you want to do multi-million dollar divorces, just keep applying. Otherwise, people generally break into it doing public defender and guardian ad litem work.

what market are you in?

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If you haven’t already, maybe consider cold calling firms that interest you and asking if they’re hiring. A lot of places are too busy to properly recruit and it shows initiative that can be attractive and help you stand out from a pile of resumes. You could also try rolling up to the office with your application in a nice folder and bring the receptionist a donut or a coffee or something…sometimes little unique gestures like that can help break the ice

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