I had a bad week and had to take a last minute week off - when I returned to work the mid-level I was assisting was all smiley and seemed full of care, but now I find out that she’s frozen me off all email chains on the transaction altogether. What should I do? Totally at a loss here

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Why do you think she froze you out? Is it possible that she took you off out of respect for your time out of the office? We do that at my firm all the time.

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I am super paranoid about these things so I totally get how you’re feeling. But it’s likely she forgot she took you off in the first place! Definitely mention it on the call, but I wouldn’t worry too much.

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I’d ask for a call with her to catch up on outstanding matters then go down your list, get status updates, and find out what you can do next. That will give you some insight into whether you’ve actually been frozen out or not. It’s also a good opportunity to reiterate your appreciation for her covering for you while you were OOO.

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Thank you

Err, so well, she’s confirmed she’s frozen me out with a phone call saying “If you want me to treat you like an associate and not a clerk you better act like it”.

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Any updates OP? So sorry this happened

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