I have a friend who is very intelligent and from a top tier b-school but somehow can't seem to gel well with the bosses at his company.
He is smart and can solve complex issues, but makes silly mistakes or forgets things, he can't read people, their tones and act accordingly (if you know what I mean) which is why he is not the kind of person who will be a favourite of the bosses.

Do you know such people? How can he make sure that he does well in his career and live up to his full potential?

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I am exactly that person

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Me too

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I am almost the same person. I always topped in analytics and Math. I was a goto person in my school and colleges. But I am someone who doesn't know how to speak much and influence people. I always feel software industry is not meant for me. I don't know how to handle politics and how to impress managers. I accept all the junk work given to me and have always been doing that. Now there are freshers who knows things better than I do, because I have not been getting quality work. Maybe because I am unable to enjoy my work here, I do forget the things, do silly mistakes sometimes.

The responses to your query will be helpful for me as well.

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Be diligent in work and avoid the mistakes and overlooking errors. Bad work plus bad social skills is not a good mix for sure.

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First and most crucial step for him would be to acknowledge that there are areas for him to improve.
Second, Identify those areas of improvement and their impact
Third, consciously work on each at work and outside of work too
Fourth, be patient and keep at it

Balance of various flavors of intelligence - technical, analytical, emotional, interpersonal each is essential and none can be tuned down to zero.

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Smart people don't repeat mistakes. At least not on a level that would make it a point for you to write in his description here. What if your classification is wrong and he's just better than avg? That would explain his situation. Smartness is a combination of many factors

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He will need to put in efforts to excel. And those should be his own efforts

The skills you need to succeed in a work environment go far beyond having base intelligence and being 'smart'. A lot of it involves not making silly mistakes, being able to read people, and knowing how to manage upwards and downwards.

Large orgs are probably not a fit for your friend. He's likely a better fit at smaller startups (although maybe not, based on what you describe), as an individual consultant, or in academia.

Harsh reality is that beyond a certain age most people can make minor deviations in their personality/work ethic: after that, the only way to be happy is to (1) be true to yourself, (2) accept your limitations, and (3) define success based on your metrics, not others.

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That friend is you

I am very good at perception management and reading people :) HCL Technologies ...everybody is not asking about themselves
Some posts are genuine too.

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