I joined a call early and it was just me and my manager. No small talk. No cameras. Just that awkward silence where both of us pretended to be busy. Do you break the silence... or just stare at your screen until backup arrives?

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I match energy. Let the manager break the silence!

we’re in this together or not at all.

That is a huge reason why I don’t join too early anymore! I sat there for 10 minutes making small talk with my boss. Pretending to be busy is the best thing that could happen. Now I don’t join any earlier than I can stand it.

completely get that! I now join bang on time because sitting there pretending to rearrange files while dying inside is not it.

I think everyone is overthinking it. It’s like bad acting in a movie when you “try” to pretend.

Better to do your best and justify it with authenticity.

If they require you to behave as a robot, best assume they will replace you with one soon.

feels like improv with no script

I hate when this happens, usually I wait a minute or so and then just make small talk- most of the time it’s fine but I guess it depends on what your relationship to the other person is

if I know the person well, I’ll throw in a comment about the weather or their mug or whatever. But if it’s my boss... I’ll take a vow of silence.

I always try to break the silence, but my success rate is questionable. I usually blurt out something about the weather or lunch. Sometimes it lands, sometimes it makes things even weirder.

I have done the weather chat, the lunch talk, even the “this platform keeps glitching” line. Sometimes it works, sometimes I just want to log off from the embarrassment.

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