I just moved to the city. Any dating do’s and don’ts? I’m not American and not sure if there are cultural things I should avoid

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Treat the other person with respect

Don’t make assumptions

Be on time


I think these are good across cultures

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I’ve given up here it’s insane

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first date is always great! wait till you start getting ghosted 😂

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