I keep hearing that networking is the key to finding tech jobs but I genuinely don’t know how people do it naturally without feeling fake. Are people mostly meeting through online communities now or are in person tech events still worth attending?

likefunny
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

It's let's you know of the jobs that are available. But the down fall is get an interview and they still don't give you a chance and you see that same job in there again in a week.

like

I live in somewhat rural Maine in a community of 6,000. The big expansion in our community is the transfer station (dump). Closest job market for me is 30 minutes, the rest are 45-70 minutes away. I’m an IT Manager. Yes I have people skills, but am a logical nerd at the core. I don’t socialize, have few friends (2.5) with 1 in-state that I talk to a few times a year.

I say this not to complain. It’s who I am. A lot of tech people I know are not very social. We’re into tech and we’re good at it. It’s who we are and what we do.

I do not network. Never have. To my detriment perhaps. What I have done is to use my tech skills, what I’m best at, to learn how to manipulate AI into helping me to help me polish my resume, synchronize it across platforms, learn about the new ways job platforms utilize AI. It’s helped me. I’ve landed some interviews. Not a job yet, but I’m using AI as my investigative partner. Tell me about this company, their culture, their leaders, anything about a particular department. Help me craft a cover letter that makes me sound like an excellent fit. What are their needs? How can I help them?

For me, fairly isolated & remote - both geographically and socially - AI has become like my very knowledgeable and non-judgmental brother - there for me when I have a question or a task. Even helping me redefine who I am. How many of us ask that question when we lose a position? Where is my relevance? Now that my job is gone, who am I? People rely on me. I rely on me. I’m not a piece of garbage to be tossed. But that’s how we’re treated. I’ve become irrelevant? But I’m not..

For each of us it’s a journey. Days, weeks, months slip by. All of our journeys are different - yet the same. All we can do is hang in there, use our gift, look at our options, and do the best we can.

Personally, being remote, and who I am, networking is hard and at the same time pointless - a waste of time, gas, and energy I could be putting into something more constructive and potentially rewarding.

I’m also finding there are no shortage of businesses in my state needing temporary tech help in one way or another. I hire myself out. Doesn’t bring in the same - but I’m relevant, it’s mostly under the table, and word of mouth spreads. Plus the work is diverse. Use your talent, perhaps make a new AI brother like I did, and be relevant. Stay busy.

Lastly, I’m bumping into businesses left and right that want to incorporate Ai into their business. Two major businesses I’ve spoken to are developing 5 year plans. We can’t deny it’s the trend.

like

Nobody is going to help others which could affect their own chances in finding or keeping a job. Networking with individuals in the field is only one piece of it. When networking is mentioned it's about networking with HR or with the management team of that company. But try that unsolicited and you might get on their do not hire list. Networking is really about finding a company that is actually truly hiring. The rest is just noise.

like

because it's a lie. everyone is lying. enjoy.

like

Connect with people over shared backgrounds and common interests. That way it comes across as genuine.

like

because reality is literally rotting while everyone "comes across" as genuine.

like

Who’s telling you to fake it lol? Network with key people who you can gel with. People always trust a job to someone they know rather than look outside. If you can’t get along with ANYONE (trust me I’m trying to be nice)— then maybe there’s something in you that’s problematic (wrong environment for you, etc).

Networking. Yes. But it isn’t fake nor necessarily il person - it is just what you do all along, all your life, like building a net(work) to help you fish when times are tough. Networking means reaching out, contributing, and asking questions (and listening answers); it is knowing the person behind the technology, and sometimes giving a leg up to someone else just because you can. It doesn’t take a huge time investment every day, but like any exercise it takes persistance.

Getting creative with your tech skills to work around the networking thing is honestly the move in smaller places, especially when the whole job market is like a 30–70 minute drive. That whole “network or die” advice is just not realistic for everyone, and it's wild how much stuff you can dig up with just the right prompts and a bit of persistence. AI's not only democratizing access, it's kinda turning everybody into a private eye, lol.

I also lean on AI a lot, mostly for resume fine-tuning and translating tech stuff into something the non-nerds in HR actually get. I’ve played around with ResumeJudge and tried out stuff like Resume Worded and Jobscan too - helps me catch the weird little buzzwords or formatting quirks that those ATS robots kill resumes with. I keep updating my templates so they scan well, then just remix for each gig.

Honestly, kind of jealous you already have a side hustle going and local word-of-mouth working for you. I get trapped in my own head about making myself “fit” sometimes, but your post’s a good reminder that relevance looks different for all of us. When you mentioned hitting up those businesses eager for AI integration, do they actually know what they want, or are you figuring it out with them on the fly? Feels like tech is going to be the backbone for every small operation out there soon.

Related Posts

when we bought our house the previous owner had cameras all over the inside of the house. later we found out there was a murder in our house before them. tonight i found tool marks on the inside of our door frames…creepy

like

Looking for custom suit options in Boston for a wedding. Preferably with the option to buy / rent since I know some of the wedding party will not want to buy the suits. Thanks in advance

My wife is worried about her job. She works as a vendor to wipro.her manager told her to send resume and docs to upload, they will transition her from vendor to wipro payroll. Her parent company is asking her to tell wipro not interested.she wants to get converted to wipro permanent payroll. Is there any NOC required from vendor?pls comment

like

Just learned about Monte Carlo analysis thru a colleague , where can I find out about other analytic methodologies?

like

Looking for a job change . I am working in TCS as a validation Engineer . I hold 3+ experience in testing (Automation+ Manual) . I have worked with various tools as Vector CANalyser, Dspace Automation desk,control desk, NI Xnet, Vspy . If something related to Python , I'll really appreciate
Pls let me know if you have relevant vacancies . Location: Pune

like

Anyone with designation 'Associate Business Analyst' on Infosys? I recently got offer on a development position but the OL specified my designation as associate business analyst. Can someone confirm whether i would be mapped to the development role even though my designation is Associate Business Analyst. Infosys Many thanks in Advance

like

Hello, I am currently a solution consultant with Kinaxis, but starting the interview process with Accenture for a similar role. Any Insight regarding salaries @ ACN for a role like this? Pros and cons of potentially switching from Kinaxis to ACN?

like

Can anyone help me knowing how can I find a job in UK while sitting in India for Skilled workers visa? I have experience of 2+ years with 1.6 years of experience in Digital marketing.

like

Best way to lookup a value with multiple criteria across rows and Columns, for 3 criteria I usually do sum product. Any other tips?

like

I’ve been approved for a transfer to the AUS office. Early 30s couple, no kids, small dog. Wife will work for the state but doesn’t have an office assigned yet. Looking for a SFH (that isn’t soullessly modern) in the 600-700k range that will suit our interests: walk to a grocery store, maybe a restaurant or two, commute to work in <30 min. Where should we look?

That kid is my fucking spirit animal

Post Photo
likefunny

Is it possible to make a transition to VC (ideally senior associate / vp role) after a two year Associate stint in MM PE? I worry that the prior interest in moving late stage will be frowned upon by early stage investors among other issues

like

What all perks MSCI joiner can expect?

like

Once when I was waiting tables, I had a guy pay me cash. The change was 45 cents, which I didn't give back to him because like who wants that. He then asked where the change was, and when I explained that I didn't give back the loose change, he made a big stink about how dollars and cents matter and didn't leave me a tip. He was a republican staffer on capitol hill.

likesmarthelpfulfunny

I have a brand that I just Create The brand is known as ANOVELX

Thoughts on Director of Software Engineering at a small firm $165k base + 10% annual bonus. No stock options, no RRSP match. YOE 12, experience in current role 3 yrs.
Current compensation $140k, no stock options or RRSP match, but love the organization.

Has anyone renewed their Indian passport here in the US? The closest embassy near me is in NYC. What's the process like? Any tips and things to keep in mind?

like

What is the Medcilaim benefits for LTI?
Coverage amount , which dependents are covered(wife/kids/parents)?
Do we have to pay the premium separately or its part of the CTC?

like

Additional Posts in Job Hunting in Tech

I need an answer for "Think back to the most recent complex decision you had to make or problem that you had to solve. Describe in detail the process you used to make the decision or solve the problem. What sources of  information did you use? How much time did you have, and how much time did you take? 

like

I'm looking to find a job like the Forward Deployed Engineer role Palantir Technologies in the UK.

I have become hooked on finding a job that involves solving the kinds of problems they presented during their interviews. Although I got to the final round my performance anxiety got the better of me (I think I wanted the job a bit too much...). I will reapply after working in a similar company.

Is it "deep tech" / "data science" or "smart enterprise" that they're doing? Any advice welcome.

like

Disney Streaming Services I completed my interview process with DSS early last week, and was reached out by recruiter that all rounds were strong hires, and they are extending an offer. We set a time to talk on Friday about the offer. However, the announcement of targeted hiring freeze happened on Friday. I was ghosted with no call. What should I expect now? Would I still have chance to be offered?

like

My husband has 3+ years of experience specializing in PL/SQL Development. Anyone have a lead for remote PL/SQL jobs? He's mostly looking on LinkedIn and working with recruiters, but is there better places to look? ZipRecruiter?

like

Hi everyone, I’m actively searching for a Sales Analyst or Operations Analyst or Support roles. Please let me know if you know of any opportunities. Thank you.

like

What does the technical assessment at Wynshop go over?

like

Can someone please advice me how to get into Managerial positions or similar positions with little to no coding… as coding takes most of my time and i start to hate it recently. I wish to manage people and move forward into higher position’s holding accountable and receiving recognition which can solve business issue than breaking my head why my code breaks. I am right now in SE II

like

Any good PM roles open? By good, I mean focused on PM activities and not covering down for unrealistic sales promises. Rapidly hitting my limit at my current org.

like

What do you think of the current job market in Germany? Do you think it has taken a hit because of the inflation? How do you think a company plans towards recruiting in the current situation?

like

I currently make 78k at Lockheed but I’m not doing what I’d like to be doing and i felt stuck and after many conversations with my manager and no solution in sight, I started applying elsewhere. I just recently got an offer from a smaller AI company for 95k that I plan to accept. I’m happy to make the jump, I just don’t know how my manager/coworkers will react when I tell them I’m leaving.

likeuplifting

Anyone know of IT Security jobs specializing in NIST and/or FISMA that are hiring?

Looking for respectful ways to manage helping people in need of a job or seeking mentorship. I get 3-4 requests a week from mutual contacts asking if I can connect with a former colleague (always broad). Typically the ask is a 30-45 min call. I’ve been laid off, I know how hard a time it is, but equally am working long hours, parenting and want to reserve time for those I know. How do others manage these extra calls into their weeks?

like

What can I except a product manager role interview questions to be?

like

I am a UX designer who has completed a Google certification program along with a resume and professional portfolio. However, I’ve struggled to find a job (remote). Any advice or resources I could use? Or are there any employers currently hiring and are interested? I’d be happy to hear from you.

like

Hello everybody
looking for jobs in IT
I have over 20 years of experience. As a 3d designer, Field Technician, HelpDesk, Network Infrastructure and in the last 4 years as a QA Tester.

like

Looking to learn coding. Any thoughts on learning code through a website like Udemy, CodeAcadeny, etc.?

like

Looking for an entry level remote tech position. Honestly not picky, current TC is 111k anything close to that would be appreciated.

Lots of people loosing jobs due to Layoffs. Please ping me I can refer you in Accenture!

like

Please, I need your opinion on this. I have 6 years of experience as a software developer and just finished my masters degree in data science. Now I am looking for a job here in the US. I went through the hiring process with this company and finally got an offer. They offered 88k/year and I responded opening a negotiation. They emailed me back saying that I am no longer in this process anymore with no further explanation and in Thanksgiving day. Is that normal?that email really got me very upset

like

Would anyone know how much a VP would make at companies like Egnyte, Immuta or Segment.

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal