I think my life would have been much different if I hadn't contacted a psychotherapist years ago. Does anyone feel the same way as me? I went far from home and at some point I noticed things weren't right. My struggle to look for new jobs was becoming a big problem and I recognized that there was something else going on behind. It wasn't just me, but an entire plan to take me back home and live at my mother's. Something that was planned by my father's family because they got the psy's contact.

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I also feel like other's lives get arranged better when those don't go to psychotherapy. That's cause psychotherapy tends to expose you to everyone, they contact your employers and your family, everyone. When you get this exposed how do you go back to a normal life?

It's like saying that in the right moment you start psychotherapy your life will be marked forever and there's no turning back. They destroy your privacy, everything.

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I haven't done anything to harm myself or others, instead I've seen my family screaming at me in the past after I came back from abroad, menacing me to call an ambulance to take me to rehab.

They also used their hands on me, offended me in many ways and I feel like psychotherapy was just the wrong thing to do, because the thing for psychologists I guess is that you need to be part of your family, you like that or not. So they make you do whatever you wanna do around, they stop you from getting into new opportunities abroad and in the meanwhile prepare your family to be very angry at you when you decide to go back.

Meanwhile you recognize that the lack of solid relationships wasn't completely your fault while you were abroad, but it was because of a hidden plan that was acting behind your shoulders.

I remember my brother calling in an angry way because I had a problem at work, I had spoken to my mother about it, but my brother didn't seem to understand instead he played like he knew what had happened and was unhappy to see that I had solved my issue on my own.

Also when I got back to my country he made jokes saying that I was the mean person living in an apartment with other people, that I was a moron etc. while in my apartment I always tried to fix things, organize stuff and clean while preserving a good friendly ambience for everyone. So I can't really stand to all of this because it makes me feel like I can't live on my own and build my own life. Psychotherapy sucks, that's all. You better don't do it.

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Hello hope you are having an amazing day It's completely valid to feel that one chapter of help went the way you
never intended but your awareness of it now is already a
powerful step toward reclaiming your own direction trust
that insight and give yourself gentle permission to choose
differently from here forward.

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Well my life is a disaster now. I don't work, I'm tracked and controlled in everything I do.

The things you say are impossible in these conditions.

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