I will say this to my grave. Woke old white men partners do not want POC to succeed. They like having us take the fall for their incompetence. Non-political (but likely Trump voters) partners are infinitely better attorneys and mentors- they treat you based on how good your work is - rather than the fall guy for the old woke pushover partners

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Its not that they don't want you to succeed its they have implicit bias they don't acknowledge because they think they are good people. And what you said about Trump supporters is pure cap, they don't even want you in the door let along being a mentor.

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Fwiw, my best mentor ever was this older white guy who was clearly a product of his generation and time. He would say something politically incorrect every 5 minutes. But, he had the mentality of, "I don't care if you're [insert problematic word]. If you're good, then you're good and I'm going to mentor you and make sure you succeed." He was a far better mentor to me than the whites who pretended they had my back but just saw me as some token diversity hire and wouldn't hesitate to throw me under the bus.

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I feel ya!! 💯

Pray and give it to God - vengeance is his. When he corrects its worthy of his praise. - Trust me

Ask God to help you start or find the right team that encourages and supports you and allows you to learn from your mistakes with grace.

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Preach!

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In my experience it’s old white partners in general who don’t want POC to succeed - regardless of political affiliation. It’s the generation they grew up in tbh - and we won’t change their minds neither by our competence or incompetence. This is their playground and we’ve only been granted a temporary day pass.

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Some group can certainly be boys club

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Add woke old white women to that list, and you're onto something. Seen the same thing from both sides.

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Reminded me of this

https://insights.som.yale.edu/insights/white-liberals-present-themselves-as-less-competent-in-interactions-with-african-americans

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Also, I will expose these pathetic terrible attorneys if I need to

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No mistakes here- my work is better than the scared of trial pushovers, but thanks for your kind words

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