I work in a small company (under 30 employees). I manage a team and I report to the CEO.

I've been in the hospital since Tuesday and up to this point given minimal details on why I'm here and my boss has been understanding.

Now to my struggle.

I have been given a diagnosis of an autoimmune disease that we are going to medicate to manage. But there will still be bad days (10 years of symptoms).

The meds will also make me immune compromised to some extent.

How much do I tell him?

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Dream Body Clinic in Puerto Vallarta can cure your auto-immune disease for $10-15k. The meds they give you here in the State do not cure anything, at best they will help manage symptoms but cause more side effects for you to manage.

I wouldnt unless I have to

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