I’m completely incompatible with a partner I work with. So much so that I constantly make mistakes because I’m trying to decipher what they mean half of the time. Big mistakes, little mistakes, all of them. On the other hand, when I work with others I get good feedback and compliments on my work. Something needs to change and I need advice on how to make it happen

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

Lateral.

likefunny

What? You expect OP will definitely end up at a firm with all wonderful/compatible partners????

like

OP, a common occurrence IMO. If you can’t avoid working with the partner, then have a frank conversation with the partner and try to ask how you can be better. They’ll either stop giving you work or appreciate that you are trying that there might be changes on their side too

like

Is it out if the question if you can’t decipher what they mean in a mark-up that you aggregate questions and set up a call to discuss?

likefunny

It’s as simple and I can’t read their handwriting. It’s so much more than that. They lack basic communication skills and when you try to express an issue, they pretty much ignore you. It’s like what you just said doesn’t register in their head

Fix it.

If you can’t negotiate not working with them, look for former or current associates or partner who have worked with this person well, or take their assistant as buddy to get to understanding them.

Don’t lateral for that reason alone unless there’s more to this. If you lateral, you are just relocating the problem/challenge - every law firm comes with their own challenges and eccentricities.

like

I’m trying to move away currently but it’s not happening quick enough for me to stop working with this partner. And unfortunately I’ve hit my limit for how much more of this partner I can take

Is there a practice manager or someone you can ask to expose you to other “practice areas” to diversify your experience? That’s the code word for I need to breathe.

Good luck!

like

Dump him

like

You must find other sources of work who will follow up your plate so you won’t have any ability to work with this person. How many other partners are there who could give you work? What are your efforts to get work. There is also a possibility that this is the only honest partner in your group. Often I see hardworking associates who get a pass even though work is not very good—with the exception of one or two partners who will say it like it is. I’m sorry to say it but developing that self-awareness is also an important skill. If you can’t read mark-ups, ask their assistant to translate. Good luck and stay resilient.

like

I think many of us have been there. Does this partner have a giant ego? Would it be hard to have a conversation with her/him about how you feel?

I have but many times it’s like my question or concerns don’t register in their head and they ignore it. This partner actually has a terrible reputation in the firm and even worse among associates. I’m starting to suspect the reasoning behind their evading my questions is they themselves may not know what to do

Can you work with others in the practice group? People here will reflexively tell you to lateral without any context or concern.

Related Posts

I was laid off from Deloitte in the 18th. I have an interview with Amazon for a Senior Program Managers Non Technical position with Amazon hiring manager on Monday. Any advice would be much appreciated. I would love to get into Amazon. I hear their interview process is brutal.

like
like

Anyone know any decent web developers that can quote for a project?

At my uncles wedding in Madrid I remember lying down on the grass in the courtyard after their first dance and crying, my Dad came and saw me, laid down in his suit beside me and asked what was wrong.

“I know my boyfriend wouldn’t dance with me like that at our wedding”

And we just lay there as I cried, and then got up. Had a drink.

Said boyfriend left years ago, and now I have a wonderful man who just asked me what type of dance lessons I want for our wedding next year.

Don’t give up.

likeupliftingfunny

Where should I invest money ?
Apart from shares and mutual funds.

Note: max amt - 20 lakhs
Need good return
Blocking period can be of 5-7 years..

Need your guidance. I am trying to learn driving. Joined a driving school and practised on their vehicle for 10 days and on my vehicle for 10 days. However, still I don't have the confidence to drive. What should I do to start driving confidently

like

I started interviewing early Oct with a company that reached out via recruiter. The hiring manager was very straight forward with me that I was his top candidate and I was told all other interviews were very positive incl CMO. The recruiter said they'd be making an offer but it's now been three weeks. Anyone else had the process drag on like this? Meanwhile I'm taking other interviews and was offered a promotion at current company, but was very interested in this one. What would you do?

like

Is anyone hiring in healthcare/biotech for marketing/strategy roles? Have ~2 YOE at top medical device companies

like

I had the first round with a consulting firm and it takes them more than a month to arrange the final round and the recruiter is not being responsive. Is that normal?

like

My parents are visiting this week and mom and I made dinner tonight. Salmon is seasoned with Trader Joe’s ajika (a Georgian spice blend) and we just roasted the broccoli. The standout is the mejadara. It’s spiced rice and lentils with fried onions and is popular throughout the Middle East. We used the recipe from Yotam Ottolenghi and Sami Tamimi’s cookbook, Jerusalem.

Post Photo
like

Hi, I am working as an associate in the sustainability team in one of the top consulting firms. I have an MBA from one of the old IIMs. I want to shift from sustainability to supply chain and logistics. Can anyone help me if finding a good opportunity in the field of supply chain.

like

I'm an Accountant having 6+ YOE in India. Now looking for jobs in EU. Any advice about finding a job in EU

like

Anyone want to go on a date today? 🤷🏻‍♀️

likefunny

Brand new single post divorce. Was with ex almost 18 years and never dated as an adult. What the hell am I in for? 35f.

Any insight on when hiring for FAAS west will start again?

like

Hello fishes,
Can you please recommend good societies for staying in Viman Nagar? 2bhk for family.

like

I recently moved to a different district and am starting to plan ahead for next year. What novels and plays do you think are worthwhile and essential for 10th, 11th and Pre-AP? I have many in mind that I have used before but am really looking for some fresh ideas!

like
like

We have a new remote position open for a Manager of Community Partnerships. DM me for details ☺️

like

Currently in ibanking as an associate and want to see if I can make the move to PE. Is the CAIA viewed favorably at all?

like

Additional Posts in Law

What productivity hacks do you employ? I like to shut off my email for 25 min intervals to focus on real work. It’s like a sprint of focus without being “unavailable” too long.

like

I am a federal government attorney (DOJ) with 2.5 years of litigation and bankruptcy experience. I want to break into tech companies/finance and apply for jobs @ Google, Robinhood, etc. Does anyone have any connections I can leverage?

funnylike

Second year associate here who recently switched from litigation to corporate law. I am absolutely swamped while simultaneously having no idea what I’m doing ever and I’m feeling so burnt out. The partners are pretty great and feedback is constructive which I’m grateful for, but I’m so desperate for a compliment I’ve been saving any scrap of positivity in a folder 😭 it’s December 22 and I haven’t done my Christmas shopping because I don’t feel capable of thinking about it. I need a hug.

likeuplifting

How do you properly vet a law firm? I feel the associates I speak with talk up the firm and aren’t always candid.

like

I am concerned with fulfilling billable hours requirement. I’m required to hit 2100 hours yearly and I’m at ~1,500 hours and I think I’ll hit 150-180hours this month. What will happen if I don’t hit my targeted amount by the end of my year.

likehelpful

Big Law Dads: How much time do you usually take off when your wife has a baby? And do you actually get to take off, or do you just end up working from home half the time? My wife is due Mid-December, and I’m staffed on 4 M&A deals trying to close by year end, so it’s not looking promising.

likehelpful

How do you wind down after a rough day?

like

Mid-senior level transactional folks: how do you originate deals? The only deals I originate come from when one of my corporate clients randomly decides to sell a business. There has to be another way to land more deals, right?

like

Considering becoming a consultant lawyer. Any advice/tips from someone who made that move?

like

Any insight on Gordon Rees pay for 2-3 year associate in a non-major market? I know they don’t pay market, but there are no BigLaw firms in my city

like

California 🐟 does your vacation payout when you leave your job get taxed at regular wage, or bonus, levels? Does your employer have discretion to choose?

like

I'm a long time prosecutor getting into the ID game and billable hours. Are there any resources out there that can help me get more effective/efficient without spending months/years learning the hard way? Some days I'm at the office 10 hours, took virtually no breaks and yet only bill 7. 🤬

like
likeuplifting

As lawyers are there ways to get paid for connecting clients?

like

I’ve practiced litigation in DC for about 5+ years at a larger plaintiffs’ firm, and am considering a switch to a defense firm. Is there any insight to how many billable hours this would require, and how much time that would actually be? For reference, the firm has a 1900 billable hour requirement and the partner said I would have “no problem” fulfilling that based on the work they have.

like

Is there an appropriate way to turn down an assignment because it is non-billable? Two of the partners I work for keep asking me to write client bulletins and articles with them, which is great, but now I’m starting to worry about meeting my billable hours requirement.

like

Thinking about getting a MBA, partly for personal enrichment but also for professional reasons. I know schools all have different “cognates” but do people have recommendations that pair well with corporate/securities/financial legal practice fields?

like

I’m on the Board of entity A (volunteer basis) and I’ll have an interview for a legal counsel position at entity B. Entity A and B have a partnership such that me working for entity B will create conflict of interest. Should I disclose my relationship with entity A during the initial interview with entity B’s hiring manager? If so, what should I say? I don’t want my volunteer job at entity A potentially jeopardizes my full-time job at entity B.

like

What is the scoop on med mal defense vs. plaintiff work? Is defense more respected by other practice areas if I were to switch somewhere else later?

I applied to a position that brands itself as civil litigation and apparently the role is med mal defense. Not sure what to go by but would like to do a little research before I call them back.

like

Oil and gas attorneys what do you do?

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal