I’m looking for a man who knows who he is, someone kind, respectful, and emotionally grounded. Someone who values companionship, who is ready to build something steady and sincere, and who understands that love at this stage is not about perfection, but about effort, patience, and care.

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Good luck with that.

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Where do you live? and willing to relocate to Chicago?

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To bad most women don't understand this.. just sayin

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all of that is 100% reasonable and normal to want/need. you’ll find what you’re looking for 🙏🏻

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It's totally reasonable, she's just in a very long line. They're out there, but they go off the market very fast and usually stay off.

Amen, sister! Me too 😊

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Yeah good luck with that and you are preaching to the choir. I think the way men have been emasculated in this country, it’s a challenge. In the work setting due to a mere compliment folks have have been to almost be mute in the work place unless work is being discussed it really different these days. I think principled men are out here but not a plethora for the taking. It’s funny I have a son in his twenty’s that works for the sand agency and he tells me there’s such a double standard in how men and women are treated in the work place. He’s amazed at the things women can get away with in the workplace if he said anything similar it would be an HR issue. I’ve seen and heard it things have changed I believe and not necessarily for the better. Just keep being you and don’t settle.

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Oh so emasculated men are only at State. Make it makes sense please. Open your eyes.

Send a dm let’s see where it leads

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What’s your type? Can you handle a corporate dinner with an SO or spouse?

Pfffft.

A I is working on that as we speak , just have a little patience.

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