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What are you doing for her to WANT to have sex with you? Do you make her do all the cooking/cleaning/child-rearing? Do you respect her? Make her feel loved and valued? Do you care about her needs in bed or only your own?
Men who end up in sexless marriages usually do little to nothing to create an environment where their wives actually want to be intimate.
I think she might need marriage counselling, this is something she needs to understand otherwise you both would remain unhappy in this marriage.. also since you had sex just 3 times in three years tell me you are very patient guy.. but this patience can be harmful as it can make you a lazy chap, who is not doing enough to change your circumstances.
Get yourself a Lover !
Thank you all for your suggestions.
Special thanks to a special A-hole 'Associate 1' aka Indian Karen. In comparison to your hateful, spiteful, petty, and imbecilic behavior, every other girl is a prize!
Haha you’re welcome :) have fun in your sexless marriage — us “Indian Karens” who know our worth and don’t settle for disgusting, sexist, incel scum like you don’t have that problem!
You need to seek medical help to see if there is underlying medical conditions like hormones or anything related to reproductive health
Go to a sex therapist
Good suggestion. Thanks.
Very simple solution! Set some ground rules for sex, mainly 2 things - days on which you will do it and spouse should play an ‘active’ part during the same. If both dont happen or either dont happen, apply for divorce in family court under grounds of cruelty. I wonder how and why your marriage lasted three years. For me, it wouldnt have lasted three months.
@manager exactly god save poor chap who this dumbo is married to 😂😂
Same boat :(
I fully understand where you are coming from. Maybe therapy? I have struggled with this as well. In my case I am the female but younger (11 years) than my husband. Is communication possible? Have you talked to her about how you feel? I can't talk much about it because I am from the Caribbean and we love sex. Maybe in your country is different. It has been a struggle to have this issue in my marriage. Not at first, for the first 7 years we were like bunnies and now with a baby we are barely touching each other. But try to communicate. I think that's key. Is something turning her off? Is there anything you both enjoy and can do together? In my case I love to play dress up or put on sexy clothes to set the mood. Sometimes thinking outside the box or trying something new can bring the sex back.
Thank you for your response. I think communication is the only way out of this issue.
I believe she knows you want it, but seems helpless due to some mental stigma ..probably a good councillor can help ..
DM a few people in this chat. I’m sure someone could fix that. 😂