Looking for a female date to go to bemelmans bar tonight
I am a 35M Brit Indian. I have only 2 abs and great sense of humor. Also I’m only 5”5. Lord blessed me with superior quant skills for the lack of vertical reach. Thank you.

FML. I’ve been dating someone for 8 months and have been having doubts about the longevity of the relationship. This week he tells me he is thinking about leaving our city and working remotely. Even though I was already thinking about ending it, this hurts. I know I’m being childish - being rejected by someone who I was planning to reject! And I know he isn’t the right guy for me in the long term. So why does this hurt?! 😭😭😭

I feel like I am very naive and cannot read between the lines, so I can’t tell if someone is trying to fuck me over or not. This leads me to be extremely skeptical of others’ intentions, and makes me less confident that I can influence others, and in general really erodes my self-confidence. Does anyone else feel similarly? If so, how have you dealt with it?

Where is the best place to watch football on Sundays and meet a single guy in his late 20s to mid 30s?

How do I politely decline that I’m not okay to make out in the first date or when the guy calls me over to his place after we meet/eat/drink? I want to take things slowly & know the person before getting physical. Not everyone might like this but that’s what I am & this whole thing appears off-putting.

Hi male here , any one interested msg me

Can’t sleep. Any ladies want to chat? 👩🏽

Attractiveness is 90% of what makes a guy initially interested in a woman, and is a huge signifier of whether he’ll commit

Thoughts on casual relationships? How to initiate? Be upfront in the dating app bios or go with the flow.

How do you casually date? Recently moved to a new city I didn’t know anyone in, met 2 girls I like and have gone on a few dates with but not sure I like them enough yet to like commit. Is it wrong to go on dates with both until I figure it out? Not sure what to do, getting into relationships makes me feel trapped and unsure for some reason

35M. Friend zoned after one date. What am I doing wrong? I met her at a baby shower. We talked/text regular for about a month or so because I was traveling for work. Finally went on a date about two weeks ago, a week after I told her I like her and said she never thought about us being romantic. Today I got the official friend zoned text.

Men in your 30s and 40s - what is the number one quality you're looking for in a woman? I like to think I'm compassionate, intelligent and independent (as much as any other woman), but I'm still struggling to find dates. I would say I'm attractive, and I take care of myself pretty well. What am I doing wrong?

I feel like being gay just adds another layer of difficulty while trying to date in consulting.

Any single lipstick lesbians here, what to chat 😉?

I'm on a beach in Florida and a guy walks up to me and is like "you're from Texas, huh?" And I'm like "yeah, how'd you know"? And then I realize how he knew...

Timma be high and eat hot dogs.

Agree or disagree: devil dogs is only good high. Dog Hause on the otherhand - low key date night and high

Welcome, friends! I created this community to meet others in the city during these strange times.

This will primarily serve as a safe space to meet friends. If your vibe is more on the dating end, that's fine too.

Let's be kind, inclusive, and respectful. I've already met some of you in person, looking forward to meet more folks here!

Has anyone found dating having kids challenging?

Any one looked at the budget hours and think they were unreal? I am updating the actual hours compared to budget, feel stupid & inefficient when I see I'm so over budget. Or maybe I should eat hours?

Can someone please help me calculate my Utilization? The Client Service Hours on ToD seems to be confusing. When does the utilisation for the year start? April or June?

I’m a young(ish) male running a private practice. Been with the group a year and a half and haven’t exactly gelled with some of the older employees. We’ve made tremendous financial improvements but in a meeting last night one of the physicians stated, in front of me, maybe we shouldn’t have hired a young guy to run the practice….I can’t think of a more passive aggressive way to ask someone to leave. Thoughts?

Know this is a long shot, but if I’m counseled out of one MBB, what are the chances I could get an equivalent job at another? And if not another MBB, thinking that a T2 or B4 could be possible? I’m not even sure I want to stay in consulting, but also feel like I didn’t get a fair shot at it

Does anyone know when London on cycle will be? Have seen a lot of posts for the US…

How is everyone’s workload? I was insanely busy the last month but the past week or so has slowed significantly.

Hello People,

I need some help. I have 3 YOE.
Package I told I am expecting is 8.5lpa
Recently I have been looking for a job switch. I have recieved an offer from a startup company whose client is hpe. HR round was taken by a HPE manager too. They told they have 25-30 employees in hpe. They have other clients like Deloitte, PWC .
He told after 6-8 months of performance I can be in direct payroll with HPE.
So is it a good idea to join ?
Or shall I look for other jobs ? Please help ..

I supervise staff in the public sector that process Medicaid applications and assistance for Medicare. Is their anything in the private sector that pay more than $75,000 in this industry and is remote or hybrid?

can i get hike in march 2024 if i join in feb last 2023

Can someone please share the current trends in joining/signing on bonus in Asset management industry.

I have an offer from an Asset Manager in London and it is slightly below my expectations. I want to approach them for a joining bonus but was not sure if it is a thing in asset management.

Also what is a good % to ask for a joining bonus [5%, 10% or 15%] of the base salary

Worst stories about leaving your firm to go elsewhere? How did the old firm take it

I run a small SaaS startup. I am looking for a growth manager for my company, who can wear multiple hats. She should be able to do presales as well as helping me in the building strategies for the company. Any help, what should I look for in an ideal candidates? Any suggestions about how would I interview candidates? Thanking you in advance!

Has anyone at a mega fund like KKR or Apollo experienced coinvesting and actually being able to put money into a deal?

Anyone have experience in raising capital out of the Middle East (Jordan, Kuwait, SA)? Any experience in delivering solutions in that area? I am trying to figure out if a pursuit in that area is to much of a risk. Any insight is appreciated.

Anyone have recommendations for a dog trainer in Queens?

Hi everyone! I need two paid background check referrals to apply for IT jobs , can somebody help ?

Anyone wanna come over? Brookyn

What’s the age group here? Any 30s 🐠🐟

Any fish going out in the east village tonight? Mid 30s?

I'm 40F. Any point to my being in this bowl? Not being facetious, just see a lot of chat here and in the WhatsApp group about how the people in their early 30s are old, so don't want to waste my or anyone else's time...

What if we turn this into a 50/50 ratio event (say max 12 people with sign ups in a google sheet) instead of just sliding in DMs? 🤔🫥

I have 3 spots left today for a bowl meet up at 7pm in Hell’s Kitchen in case anyone else wants to join! Res is for 12 ppl :) Come and start your week off meeting cool people!!

Edit: Most likely indoor? Last time we got a place indoor.

Ages range between 24-32 😎

Anyone wana be my friend? Moving to Jersey City the first week of April.

Going to the Flying Cock today at 1:30 with a group of friends (early and mid-30s females) for bottomless brunch and 🏈. Boys, come meet us! 

Thinking of moving to Skillman, NJ for a role but I’m a bit concerned that it’s way too suburban. Any idea which neighboring town would be a good fit instead? Single, female (30), looking to make friends, date and build a life!

Anyone wanna come over? Brooklyn

Has anyone met anyone from this bowl?

What’s everyone up to today?

Hi, what is a single woman to do for the holidays besides watch lifetime and binge on Christmas dinner? Any suggestions?

Any fish in their 30s here?

Plans fell through for this weekend. Any female fish want to hang out and grab dinner and drinks

How does this work?

Hi there! I’m 32, single, no kids and never married. I work in the health care marketing space. Seeking to make a long term connection with the right man. I’m located in Southern New Jersey. For fun, I’m a surfer and have been for the past 18 years. 🏄🏻‍♀️

So I just recently got into dating after a break up 3 months ago. I joined some dating apps and have been getting quite a few matches. I’ve never dated anyone like to a point of going on traditional dates. Basically, I have no clue what to do on a date once i have one planned. Like I’ve been on a few and it’s been just talking but I guess I have no clue what to do after. I’m probably just rambling at this point but basically I need advice on actual dates and how to feel it out and what to do. Ty

Are there any black single men preferably childless between the ages of 36-45 in this group? Would be amazing if you lived in NJ