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This is my second baby and in the same place. Having gone through it once, I shifted my mentality this time to just realize it’s normal and roll with it 🤷♀️ I know that’s not really a tip or trick, but letting go of the stress of feeling like it was “bad” or needed to be “fixed” was hugely impactful
M3 same here with our daughter, and she started sleeping through the night around 2.5. I guess my point is more that… we tried everything, all of the tips and tricks and training methods, etc. none of it worked. So when I say mindset shift, I don’t mean to expect baby to just grow out of it, but moreso not feel like I’m doing something wrong or missing the one “key” to getting them to sleep better. Moreso just doing what I can and keeping in mind this is all normal and all a phase im rolling through
Ugh I’m so sorry. We are just now getting past that sleep regression (I think) at 17 weeks but we had it for a solid 4 weeks. It does get better. What has helped us somewhat (but not foolproof) is SITBACK from Taking Cara Babies.
S - stop and wait a few minutes to see if baby calms back to sleep, if not…
I - increase volume on sound machine, wait 1-2 minutes to see if that helps, if not…
T - touch baby’s chest - place your hand on their chest to calm them, then wait 1-2 mins to see if it helps, if not…
B - binky, offer binky/pacifier, wait 1-2 mins to see if it helps…
A - add movement, gently rock the baby, wait 1-2 min to see if it helps, if not…
C - cuddle, take baby out of bassinet and cuddle them for 1-2 mins…if this doesn’t help….
K - k, you need to feed the baby until they fall back asleep
This isn't necessarily going to suit all babies, but it's advice which is fairly different from mainstream sleep advice so if other things aren't working or don't feel right for you or your baby, consider this: the Possums method.
It's quite a crunchy/attachment-parenty method but essentially it's "always wake up at the same time each day and go into the sunlight; the baby can nap when he wants to nap, no stress if he doesn't; have a stimulating day during the day and put him to bed when he seems tired". I'd call myself only moderately crunchy but it works well if you're a relatively free-flow parent. For me, my baby also took ages to fall asleep if he wasn't ready and it just felt like a waste of everyone's time rocking for 45min.
I now regret every minute I spent on Huckleberry obsessing about wake windows.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AttachmentParenting/comments/hw0r0q/anyone_else_following_the_possums_sleep_approach/
Have you tried the Moms on Call sleep schedules? They were incredible for my LO! Also, at 4 months, we gently sleep trained with the chair method + pick up, put down. (We sat beside the crib while baby fell asleep, picked her up when she was crying, not fussing, then put her back down once soothed.)
Let me know if you have any questions. Sleep is a moving target, but I’m happy to help troubleshoot!