Going through a miscarriage at the moment. Was 5 weeks-ish in and did three days of HIIT workout and here I am. I’m young so not that sad but I just hope I don’t have to get the D&C surgery. :(

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I’m sorry! Don’t blame yourself this is more common than people think, and likely has nothing to do with anything you did or didn’t do. 5 weeks is pretty early and will probably resolve on its own. Take care of yourself. Hugs 🤗.

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I am so sorry. Along with what D1 said, the main reason for miscarriages is abnormal chromosomes, so what you do has no impact, it's inevitable. Don't blame yourself, sending virtual hugs!

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Agreed with the above - sorry to hear about what you're going through.

As an aside, a D&C was a lot less scary than I thought it would be and my I healed much faster than I expected both physically and emotionally.

I’m so sorry, but having taken the miscarriage pill and D&C, I was 11 weeks when I miscarried, D&C was a whole lot better than the pill. The pill was just so painful.

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