It's a daily battle that I have to keep on going. Contracting team Folks here at DC just can't bear to be in a position to get "legal concurrence" from a lawyer with a yellow face. Constant emails in all-capital letters to my superior senior attorney to confirm whether what I advised are really valid. It may not be personal but these constant demand to me to "prove" my worth is really getting on to me, putting me on fire inside. Well, it may not have anything to do with my skin color at all

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I didn’t realize what a valuable tool therapy is - especially in a profession known for toxic work environments. I did my best to survive and exchanged stories with colleagues (which was very helpful). Years later, I now appreciate how therapy teaches you how to set boundaries, interact, process, not internalize, etc. My suggestion is to take advantage of your insurance and get access to the lifetime tools therapy provides. If it’s out of pocket, treat yourself to at least 1 session a month.

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it's in house,
and I had a wine last night.

Appreciate the checkmark everyone.
I'm well, and getting back to work!

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Glad to hear today is a better day. Hang in there!

I'm sorry you're feeling overwhelmed/annoyed. Is this a law firm? In house?

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