I’ve never felt more seen than when Zoe Scaman’s report on motherhood in advertising dropped. It is so sadly true. F you to the “progressive” and “feminist” boss who forced me back from mat leave before I was ready. And F you to the boss who didn’t renew my contract after mat leave. You are all the problem.

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I FEEL this - single mom (0 support from other parent in any way) to a toddler, almost back to a full time in office mandate requiring a nearly 2 hour commute with traffic each way is like the loudest way someone could say "we hate moms, plz quit". My 85 year old neighbor told me today (I love her, she isn't from the states and meant this tenderly) That she does not know how I do this and that I am "disappearing" - I don't think those with the power to make a difference in our industry will read one line of Zoe's report, but for those of us who live it? There's something to be said for not feeling invisible for once at a minimum.

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Can you drop a link to it?

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it's so good and so sad. I know being a mom in this business has pushed me to the limit

Link: https://www.canva.com/design/DAGTF8DEcN4/Ssja3y-Kv6k2um_ng0Ishw/view?utm_content=DAGTF8DEcN4&utm_campaign=designshare&utm_medium=link&utm_source=viewer

Holy shit. It’s as if she looked inside my head and said all the things I’ve been feeling and screaming for the last four years. Now to make some action out of this!!

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