Do you ever feel like people treat you differently at your firm because of your age? Like reverse ageism? As if you don't know enough or aren't competent enough yet? Just curious if others have ever felt this way.

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Yep. 1000%. Especially by boomer white men.

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Yes. Bur its also true. I'm new to practice, so it doesn't matter to me

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